Gambits / Routines
Sex Talk: The Purity Gambit
I will get more into the benefits of this gambit in a bit. I will present it first. The transition can be
done in many ways, but usually I just start things out with a STATEMENT about female
purity. However it is advised to bridge into a subject that make the transition smoother.
If you are already talking about sex, then this should be very smooth, but other options of
subjects to bridge into before making such statement would be:
- Discuss difference about men and women
- Dating
- What most men/women want
- Relationships
- You get the idea - anything related to the above will do the job
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Me: I really seek purity in a woman... I find purity to be something virtuous, but before you judge
this statement, I would suggest you hear my out (last part is optional)
Her: Oh really?/what do you mean?/ what is female purity to you?
Me: Women who are able to embrace their own sexuality, with openness, true lust and confidence
to act upon their desires (very powerful sentence here - bunch of commands... this sentence alone
would require a whole post)
Her: huuum! I like this.
Me: Well unlike most men who see purity as restraint from pursuing ones lust, I look at it the
opposite way, because what is more beautiful than someone, in this case a women, who act
ACCORDING to natures plan? Sex is her purpose (if she is sophisticated you may say "sex is her
telos" or "sex is here teleological purpose")
Her: I agree!
You can stop it there, but if you want to you can continue with the thematic!
Me: and people do have sex for many different reasons such as vengeance, a desire for status,
validation and so on... but what is more pure than a woman who has sex out of PURE lust?! No
other intentions, no other plans, no schemes, just pure lust, passion and desire! It all about sex...
for sex! Having sex... to get sex!
Her: True!
Me: what is more pure than having sex just for the joy of sex! It is clean, honest and pure!
Hence the purity!
Her: ow so true.
So why does this work? Here are some of the mechanisms at play:
- Gets you talking about sex and set a sexual frame (get the ball rolling... as in using this to
set the scene to talk about other sexual subjects).
- Being unpredictable (The idea of having a "twist" is the key here). The controversial
statement, which may trigger some just to find out that the actual response was something that
she an accept, relate to and love is very stimulating to women.
- She will allow herself to act sexually liberated against you, since that's what you
communicate to be attractive (If there is compliance, she will be willing to comply to this
demand... by acting sexually liberated). This remove the “I’m not that kinda girl”
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Ok, some women will comment about "love". In such case, proceed as following:
Her: but what if you have sex out of love, would the be impure?
Me: Well in that case, is it the SEX ITSELF that is pure, or the love? The main drive here is not
the sex, but the emotions.
Her: true
Me: that said, having sex for the sake of having sex can oftentimes transform into pure love, and
oftentimes when it does, it generates the best kind of love and relationships.
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She won't argue against that. Fixed. This way you:
- Avoid a debate that is not productive
- You let her keep her point while maintaining yours
- And remember that many women seek love (love in female language can be translated into male
language as "commitment" - most women seek commitment), so leaving this option hypothetical
yet ambiguous may avoid her shutting certain doors, yet without giving her any false hopes since
you are being rather ambiguous.
Sex Talk: The Submission Gambit
* Good chick-crack that hooks women in
* Show awareness, and female understand (pacing).
* Transitions the conversation into sex
* Gets her talking/react
* Can work as a tool to reduce/remove potential resistance.
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You: Do you know what a real woman is to me?
Her: No (she will be very curious about this, hence immerse her in)
You: A woman who submits! (now since this is a controversial statement, she will react...),
You: But please let me explain before reacting (key to mention this to avoid potential anger)
Her: You better... (she is immersed since you hit a little nerve, but dodged the temper tantrum -
she is expecting you to be yet another chauvenist - and you will prove her wrong).
You: A real woman is a woman who is able to submit, but not to a man, but to her own passions
and desires....
Her: huuum interesting
You: and if her passion is toward a guy, she is not submitting directly to her, but to her feeling
toward the man. (you just helped her made sense of her desire for sexual submission, without it
contradicting her social frame that is often inspired by feminist narratives - hence you just induced
a good feeling)
Her: that's is a good way of putting it!
You: yes, and so many women are holding back their true desires and passions... because the
social world tells them they shouldn't do X and Y... but what happened to strong, confident and
independent women?
Her: ....
You: Be strong and SUBMIT to your passions! they are strong and often time beautiful!.
She says she has to go (to her friends, leave with her friends, "can't do it tonight".)
Her: I can't leave with you, I have to go with my friends (or what ever excuse)
You: I see... you can't... but YOU WANT to (cred: Zan Perrion - deliver this with a smirk).
Her: I know but I really have to!
You: Well... be strong and submit to whatever passion you feel are strongest for yourself,
and not what other desire. Be strong an independent and do what ever choice you feel is right
FOR YOU and ONLY you (trigger the anchor and remind her of the frame you set earlier).
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Will it always work? No. But it can work and may be a good solution if things would not have
worked out anyway. A good last resort strategy,
But this gambit is not only used to dodge these forms of resistance... in fact it is much better:
- Chick crack (to get her immersed and hooked in)
- Set the right frames
- Get the conversation into sex.
The 8 Types of Orgasm Routine
Example 1: The Mental Orgasm
You: “So the first and most important one is, in fact, the mental orgasm. Now, some can orgasm
just through mental stimulation… as in getting so mentally aroused that they just come. However,
this requires lots of trust and a lot of stimulation.”
Her: “I don’t think mental stimulation alone can lead to orgasm – more is required, right?”
You: “In most cases, you are right (pacing), but let us agree with the fact that if you are mentally
stimulated, you are more likely to orgasm, and orgasm stronger once you get stimulated
somewhere else.”
Her: “True!”
You: “As they say… if the mind is with her (point at her head), her body follows (point at her
genitals – but don’t damn touch it!).
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Example 2: The Clitoris
You: “Next we have one you are familiar with… namely the…”
Her: “Clitoris?”
You: “Correct! It is ironic how so many men cannot find a clitoris.” (How to find it? Stick your
tongue in her opening, then slide it up through her genital lips, spreading them, until you reach a
bump – that’s the clit. Feel free to explain this to her if you want. )
Her: “Yeah, I know, it’s crazy.”
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Example 3: The U-Spot
You: “The U-spot is one you may not be familiar with.”
Her: “What is that?”
You: “The area between your opening and your clit. It is sensitive. Some can orgasm from it,
others can’t. All women are different, which makes them differently receptive to each of these
orgasms. Even though she may not orgasm from this one, it still feels good to her, and can serve
as a warm up to other things.”
Her: “Interesting.”
You: “Just wait till we get to the next one.” (creating anticipation)
Example 4: The G-Spot
You: “Now we get to the juicy one – the G-spot – which is situated upward, half a finger in. It can
be stimulated using a “come here” move. (Demonstrate with your hands when describing the spots
inside her vagina.)
Her: “Ah! I thought it was a myth, but yeah, I recall feeling something up there.”
You: “Yes, although women have the G-spot in different places – some a bit deeper inside, some
slightly to the left, some to the right.” (True, by the way. How you find it: look for her reaction,
and if she is reacting well, you found it… if not, try a bit to the left or right.)
Her: “Interesting.”
You: “Also, if you do it right, and she is mentally stimulated and perhaps has reached… one…
two… or three clitoris orgasms through licking, she will more easily orgasm… STRONGLY… from G-
spot stimulation. Do you know what happens then?”
Her: “No?”
You: “The girl can squirt!”
Her: “Shit, really?”
You: “Yes, physically most girls can squirt, but they usually don’t because they hold back. They
get the sensation that they have to piss, so they hold back when they should let it go.”
Her: “Wow! I’ve totally had to piss when almost reaching climax!”
You: “Exactly! What I usually do is place a towel under her so I don’t have to change the sheets.
But the best part is that she can feel more comfortable releasing herself… and let go.”
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Example 5: The A-Spot
You: “Some women can come from deep penetration; for example, through well-performed
missionary. Are you one of those?”
Her: “Yes.”
You: “Awesome, that’s caused by A-spot stimulation, which is just a bit deeper past the G-spot
(again demonstrate with your hand for max success). It can be stimulated with a penis or fingers.
Interestingly, if one uses his finger, and pushes down on the area below her belly button, above
her mons pubis, he can actually stimulate that spot from the outside. But combined with
stimulation from the inside, it can become really pleasurable and intense.”
Her: “Are you like a sex guru?”
You: “Nah, just interested in sex. Why shouldn’t I be? I find this interesting.”
Her: “It is surely!”
Example 6: The Deep-Spot
You: “The next spot is the deep-spot, which like the A-spot, is deep inside. However, it’s
downwards (use your hands to demonstrate). This is the spot that gets girls off through doggy,
and it’s also the spot the leads to anal orgasms, for those of you who are into that.” (Anal talk is
hit or miss, but mentioning it briefly does not hurt!)
Her: “I am not into anal.”
You: “That’s fine (pacing), but you can still get off with a deep-spot orgasm through vaginal
stimulation, which can be done with fingers… in which case you can actually combine it with oral
clitoris stimulation, or doggy style and some rough animalistic dominant sex!”
Her: Really, you gotta be some kind of sex guru or sex education teacher.” (I have gotten that
one quite often.)
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Example 7: Breast Orgasms
You: “You’ve probably experienced that the nipples and the breasts are rather sensitive.”
Her: “Yes, I have.”
You: “Did you know that, through massage, following a steady rhythm can lead to breast
orgasms?”
Her: “No… oh my god?”
You: “Well, you can! It takes time, though. That said, it still feels good and can be really
stimulating.”
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Example 8: Full-Body Orgasms
You: “Are you ready for the 8th one?”
Her: “YES!”
You: “Full-body orgasm.”
Her: “SERIOUSLY? Stop it!” (said playfully)
You: “If you’re mentally stimulated, and your orgasm has been teased – that is, orgasm has been
close but denied at least 3 times – and your whole body has been stimulated through licking,
sucking, and kissing… and you are perhaps on track for a combined orgasm, such as being licked
while fingered… things can get magical.”
Her: “Where do you live?”
One way I like to finish this off is to simply ask:
You: “What are your plans for tonight?”
Her: “Nothing special.”
You: “Join me for a cup of tea – I live at X place.” (If you live nearby, say so – and I like tea and
don’t care what time it is.)
Her: “Okay.”
You will reach a VERY high note after using this technique, so use it to your advantage! Timing is
key! If she resists? Well, back off a bit, punish her (calibrating to her response), and eventually
persist by building more compliance and attempting to extract again.
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Fractionation. The idea here is that you can mention 2-4 orgasms then change the subject into
something else (music, clubs, clothes, food, hobbies, whatever).
This will frustrate the crap out of her – she’ll want to hear more. Making a girl curious and aroused
and wanting more is powerful. She may even switch the conversation back into the initial sex
subject. (now that is what I call compliance!)
You can bring it back later if you need something to get her back into a good state
You: “Oh, by the way, I noticed I forgot to mention the last 3 orgasms!”.
The “I Want Tequila” Gambit
I suggest using this gambit post-hook (when you are in the group and able to have and keep a
conversation going, preferably with at least some compliance). Make sure her friends think you are
a cool dude, or else they will block directly (by holding her back) or indirectly (by making your
girl feel “not allowed” to be with you)
After talking to her for a bit, look at her seductively and say...
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You: Do you know what I would love to do with you? (this is the bait)
Her: No?? (she may seem a bit creeped out, which is okay)
This reaction is, again, not an issue, and to some extent, desired. What you will deliver is
something she totally would not predict! And this is why it becomes an exciting gambit, as
discussed last week. This is anti-climax playing in.
If she looks super excited after your sexually-loaded bait (as if she would not only welcome but
love the explicit picture she 'expects' you to paint for her), then consider it a sign that she likes
you and is compliant.
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You: Well, it is something freaky, actually. I do not think you are ready to hear it.
Her: It is okay; I can handle it. (she is investing)
You: Are you sure?
Her: Yes.
Now, she might say she doesn't want to hear about it. This is rare, but it can happen. Just accept
it and move on to another subject. Because 85% of the time, if not more, she will go back
and ask you to deliver it anyway. In which case, you get her to ask/beg for it, which can
be even better for you.
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You: So, what I wanted to do with you is…
Her: What?
You: Hmmm…
Drag it out; add a long pause. Make her even more intrigued and curious. Conversational pauses
before a potential climax are deadly efficient! It makes her incredibly interested. Use it!
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You: Okay, girl, I will tell you. What I want to with you is… (pause)… TEQUILA!!!
Her: Hahahaha! Seriously! I wasn’t expecting that one! (she may or may not verbalize the latter;
it doesn’t matter)
You: Cool, let’s go!
Then take her hand and drag her to the bar for tequila shots!
Three Favourite Animals Game
You ask her three favourite animals, and ask her to describe their characteristics. I use an
example so they don't go trying to say, "Pig: pink. Curly tail. Hooves," because that's useless for
this game.
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You: Let's play a game real quick. It's called the "Three Favourite Animals Game". It's going to
tell me all about your personality... you'll like it. It's fun.
Girl: OK.
You: I'm going to ask you your favourite animals, and I'll ask you to describe some characteristics
of each of them. For instance, a cat might be sneaky and intelligent. So, what's your #1 MOST
favourite animal?
Girl: Tiger.
You: OK, cool. And how would you describe a tiger?
Girl: Ummm... a tiger is strong. And powerful. And blends in well with its surroundings.
You: Neat. Those are good. And what's your #2 MOST favourite animal?
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The way it sorts out is this:
First animal is how she wants others to see her
Second animal is how others ACTUALLY see her
Third animal is the way she actually is
99% of the time, this is spot on. Only girls who are complete weirdos think it's wrong... I have no
idea why. But you don't want to hook up with weirdos anyway.
Timing tips: use this when you're already hooked and she wants to keep talking to you. Avoid
using this when you haven't reached that point yet, or when the interaction is dying down -- either
one of those and it feels like a ploy to keep talking to her (and thus, tryhard).
You Go To The GYM Routine
*Use this once she been hooked*
You know I just noticed you actually have a really nice body. You go to the gym? – YES/NO
question
If Yes: Oh yeah? hold on let me feel your muscle. (feel the spot underneath her muscle).
[surprised face] You liar. Be honest. you’re one of those girls who only goes to the gym in tight
ass clothes. Stands in front of the mirror. and just works on her ass so that everybody checks you
out? - Investment Hoop - make her qualify/explain/defend herself
If No: Oh really genetics? but I feel like if it weren't for your genetics...you'd be one of those girls
who goes to the gym in tight ass clothes. stands in front of the mirror. and just works on her ass
so that everybody checks you out? - Investment Hoop.
No but that’s actually cool. Its good to feel yourself - Reward for qualifying herself
Subtle Physical Escalation
1) “I like smart/perceptive girls”
Smart works for dumb chicks (They want to feel smart)
Perceptive is better for smart ones (They like to touch other stuff, and dumb girls might
not know perceptive, lol)
2) “I’ll give you some clues, feel my hands, are they soft or rough”
– give her a command
– get *her* to initiate and break the touch barrier
– give her an easy question to answer
– opportunity to comment on her soft hands, “someone here never does dishes*
3) “Now feel my biceps, [move her hand to your biceps], big or small”
– if she says big: I tell her that she’s not perceptive (tease)
– if she says small: I tell her that she’s trying to hurt my feelings and needs to make
