I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to

be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have
noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by
the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within
yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past
experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial
walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a
risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes
all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of
life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the
time.You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth
closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may'
come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true
love brings. to do, a Chat's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong
the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from
pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy?
Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop
us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the
beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there
IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life. making sure
you call the person you care about or love, and be there whenever he/she needs you.
Just care for that person with all your might.
Friendship is one of the important key in any relationship. I feel that if you
can't be friends first what chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you
have to have trust and respect. You have to like the person you're friends with to
get along together. Once that is accomplished falling in love with them is just an
extension of friendship, only stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick
house, love must also have a foundation. That foundation is friendship. You must
have a strong foundation (friendship) in order for love to withstand the test of
time Validating your partner's feelings. It's so important to be heard in a
relationship even if you do not agree with what is being said.
I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance.
When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return
will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to
hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they
can build a successful relationship from this Quality time spent together, pillow
talk, one on one, being open about everything Always showing you love each other
all the time by celebrating on different occasions like the first time you met each
other, I think the most important key to a successful relationship is when you
truly enjoy each other's company..
Commitment is the one greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are
committed you will always find a way to work things out. I think with
friendship,trust and love among two it will be a very nice realationship! You can
love someone like that and still be best friends and it's the best. Plus if they
are your best friend, can't best friends stay best friends forever? If you just
love someone for their physical aspects, there's no friendship or similarities
between you except that Passion. Without feeling passionately towards your mate the
communication, sex, intimacy, and ultimate closeness will not be there, which in
turn leaves each partner wanting/needing more from the relationship than they are
getting. I know because I've lived it. My late wife and I had everything. Money,
companionship, friends, a home, great jobs, but we didn't have passion. We were
basically friends. Friends are just that friends... husbands or wives should be in
love and life partners... that doesn't happen without feeling passion for the other
person Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you feel.
What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they
can't do what makes you happy and vice versa.
Communication. In many instances, 'communication' can be used in place of
'relationship'. If you withhold something from your spouse or lie to them, the
communication (or relationship) has ended. If you chose not to be truthful, because
you're afraid they may leave or be upset, you've got nothing to lose -- the
relationship is already over. You may continue to go through life together, but
you'll never have a 'relationship.
The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's
with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive. But if it's
with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will receive...
EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers
you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed.
I am well balanced in my life. I am a man of true character who believes in giving
everyone a fair chance. I have established some very well thoughtout career goals
with a clear path and plan to achieve success which is controlling my own destiny
and not all the money in the world. I do have my Christian faith to credit for my
life, attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women
for my character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused
entirely on himself....
You are sent to me from the heavens i must say you are truly a woman of inner
beauty the woman i would love to do all sweet things to,the woman that deserves all
my love care and protection..ARE YOU READY FOR A NEW
RELATIONSHIP...................
After any long-term relationship it may be tough to find the inner strength or
desire to open your heart to love again. When a love interest comes knocking at
your door, how do you know that old battle.

Love Always.
William

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\b # How has life been treating you since you have been alone?\b0 \par
Ugly. For me, I just want to lay down and forget about my troubles. I feel let-
down, dejected, and not confident. After I notice that my ex was sleeping with my
friend. For the past years of my divorce, I have dated few ladies, which leads to
troubles but so far, life has been hectic emotionally, without someone to love, is
really hard to come home with no one to talk with and working too hard to forget
about your past is really stressful. My family and friends has been helpful. I have
been able to accomplish a lot and am a happy person, not a saddest.\par
\b # What did you learn from past relationships?\b0 \par
That in order to be happy together, the two persons involved must connect while
being true to themselves, be honest with each other and have similar life goals and
ambitions, and more even importantly share the same philosophy as to how to attain
these goals and ambitions. I found that people cannot change, and that one's true
nature always comes out eventually. Finally, I realized that it is best to be
single than matched with the wrong person!\par
\b # What are your expectations from a relationship?\b0\par
I am looking for a relationship partner who is confident, she is got to be kind in
heart and respect people regardless of their social status. Someone who loves me
for who I am and cares about me deeply. Who is faithful, honest, and openly
communicates with me. Who will support me no matter the ups and downs in life, who
I can have great conversations with either on little topics or serious issues. Who
is willing to deal with the differences and work out the difficulties together? I
firmly believe in treating people the way you want to be treated. I think this
applies to a relationship as well. So I will do the same as what I wish from my
partner. I will love to meet someone who is romantic in heart. I hope the romance
will last a long time with both of us not taking for granted what we share. Keeping
a great relationship is a life long work.\par
\b # What is your health status?\b0 \par
I\rquote m very fit, healthy and able to function decently during my everyday
activity. Free from heart disease, cancer, diabetes, STD and a host of other bad
things. I go to gym weekly. I enjoy outdoor activities, and job is very active, so
it motivate me to stay in shape to keep up with my working nature. I could do 100-
150 pushups and countless crunches and squats. I'm not a good runner, but I have
great endurance at slow pace. I would rather walk for a couple hours than run for
20 minutes! I don't have any health issues.\par
\b Are you keeping any on going relationship?\b0\par
I was in a relationship with someone on and off for 1 years. Every time she is too
forwarding about marriage and kids. I\rquote m being careful, so I let her go. I
have dated few but many ladies but not really the heart breaker. Am pretty
selective, don't want to mark another divorce history. I also meet a lady from the
internet, I fly over to visit her couple of times but she never shows up my end. It
seems she is keeping a secret. For now am pretty free, for the past 3years but
sometimes I do have casual sex. I will write you more about my Ex relationship.\par
\line\b # What type of relationship you are searching for? \b0\par
Romantic relationship: Were hug and kiss, affection, and lot of emotion stuffs take
parts. \par
Flexible relationship: were there is time for both partners to work, go out alone
for visit and spend little time with friends and family. We can have equal right to
do things on our own but not taking advantage to cheat.\par
Understanding relationship: We have to trust each other, always debate on issue at
hand, share what we have, stick together in good times and bad times.\par
Faithful relationship: fidelity and a commitment to the relationship and both
partners.\par
Compassionate relationship: timely, loving communication, self-sufficient, secure,
confident., Lot more but am not searching for all..\b \b0\par
\b # What is your educational qualification? \b0\par
I graduated in 1988 with M.S in Chemical Engineering from Texas University, Austin
and then went on to complete an MRes in physic and Geophysics at the University of
Southampton's Oceanography Center, England. I also completed a special degree in
Mechanical Engineering at Sharif University of Technology in England, with a
special certificate in Auto/Repair Engineer which qualify me to work as a
Maintenance Engineer.\par
\b # Tell me more about your dislikes and likes?\b0 This has to take another
page.\b \b0\par
This is a lot you need to know, I will write more in my other emails, I\rquote m
happy I took time out to respond to this Email, It would have been the End of our
conversation, if I didn't answer this. Is a little bit stressful but I enjoy
answering them. I will write you more about my Job, Hope you are having a wonderful
time with your family?\par
Hope to write soon.-- \line\i\f0\fs20 Engr. John Blake Felton\f1\line Maintenance
Engineer to\line BP Refinery\line Rosemount, MN 55068\line Work Cell: (612) 412-
1641\line Email: {\field{\*\fldinst{HYPERLINK "mailto:Mr.JBFelton@gmail.com"}}{\
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