Nurses Oet Guide
Nurses Oet Guide
There are no changes to the format of the Speaking sub-test. However, new assessment criteria are being
introduced from September 2018 which has been discussed in detail below.
• Engaging with a variety of patient types, e.g., different ages, various health problems,
different concerns.
• Explain medical conditions and treatments in a clear and accessible way.
• Rephrase ideas in a variety of ways to help or persuade a patient.
• Reassure a worried or angry patient.
The interlocutor will take on the role of a patient or in some cases, a patient’s caregiver or family
member.
Information giving
Linguistic Criteria
Intelligibility – how well your speech can be heard and understood. It includes pronunciation, intonation,
stress, rhythm, pitch, and accent*.
TIPS
• Consider each aspect that makes up this criterion: not just pronunciation, but also use of stress
to emphasize the most important
information, and use of intonation to signal whether you are asking a question or making a
statement.
• Practice the pronunciation in English of common words and phrases used in your profession.
Fluency – how your speech is delivered in terms of the rate (speed) and natural flow of speech.
TIPS
• Speak at a natural speed. If your speech is too slow, the listener might feel frustrated while
waiting for you to finish or may lose the flow of the argument. Similarly, if the speed is too fast,
it might difficult for the listener to comprehend.
• Aim for even speech [not broken up into fragments] – reduce excessive* hesitation or speaking
in ‘bursts’ of language or excessive self-correction or fillers.
*The word excessive here is used because some repetition or hesitation or self-correction or
during speech is natural and is acceptable. However, if these have an impact on your ability to
be understood, then your score will be affected.
Appropriateness of language – including the use of suitable professional language and the
ability to explain in simple terms as necessary and appropriately, given the scenario of each
role-play.
TIPS
• Consider how your language will need to be adjusted to suit the patient type and
context. For example, consider how your tone, pitch, and language will vary when
you are delivering bad news to a patient or when speaking to an angry or withdrawn
or depressed patient.
Resources of grammar and expression – including the accuracy and range* of the language
used; how effectively and naturally you can communicate in a healthcare setting.
TIPS
Demonstrate your ability by paraphrasing or different phrases to communicate the same idea
to the patient.
Make sure you can form questions correctly (word order) – particularly those questions that
you often use with patients while investigating the presenting complaint or taking medical
history [‘How long...?’, ‘When’].
TIP:
*Choose to demonstrate a range of grammar in your OET Speaking. A student who chooses
to use simple grammar and does not make any mistake is not likely to get a high score in the
Speaking sub-test. In other words, to score a high grade in the OET exam, it’s not enough to
make any mistakes (accuracy), you will also need to use a variety of grammatical struc
Communication criteria
Relationship building consists of 4 sub-criteria
Initiating the interaction appropriately
Being accepting and respectful towards patient views and avoid making any
judgmental comments or statements
2. Picking up patient cues like hesitation, change in volume or tone, pauses and using
verbal facilitation techniques like using reflecting statements to encourage patient
participation.
2. Signposting changes in the topic – use discourse markers to move from one task to
another.
Categorization, i.e., forewarning about categories about to be provided. For example, Let’s
first talk about your medical history and later I’d like to ask some questions about your routine
including eating and sleeping habits.
Labelling – attaching a label to the “advice” to persuade your patient. It’s imperative that you
take some steps to control your weight. OR
Chunking – Breaking down the information into chunks and giving it to the patients in small
increments and allowing them time to absorb each block of information.
For example:
summarizing gives the patient an opportunity to clarify details, make corrections and add
further contributions
For example:
• I am sorry, but I missed the last sentence. Could you please repeat it?
Summarizing provides the patient with an opportunity to clarify details, make corrections and add
further details.
2. Periodically pausing when giving information, using the patient’s response to guide
next steps – Use ‘chunking and checking’ to provide information in small blocks of
information and then checking the patient’s understanding before proceeding further.
This helps the patients in retaining and recalling the information better. Don’t forget to
clear and simple language, avoiding any medical jargon, when giving information to the
patients, and use the patient’s responses as a guide to decide what information to supply
next.
5. Discovering what further information, the` patient needs – This means asking directly if
the patient would like to know additional details.
For example: Are there any other questions that I can answer?
To enhance active patient participation, employ patient engagement techniques and use
more open-ended questions to elicit information regarding patients’ needs and
preferences, and encourage patients to ask questions.
Use tools such as the teach-back method to determine whether patients understand the
risks, benefits, and alternatives to treatment. Teach-back can help to focus patients and
clinicians on what’s important.
General Tips
The introductory section of the Speaking sub-test is not assessed. Use this time to
“warm up’ and get used to speaking to the interlocutor. During this time, ask the
interlocutor if you have any questions about what a word/phrase means, how it is
pronounced, or how a role-play works.
When preparing for the OET test, practice using the communicative functions that you
are likely to need in any consultation context: explaining, summarizing, clarifying,
eliciting information, reassuring etc.
You are allowed to make notes on the cue-card and keep it with you while performing
the role-play.
Take time to read through the role play card carefully.
Don’t follow a formula for the role-play that may not be appropriate –
e.g. sometimes you do not need to introduce yourself because it is clear you know the
patient already.
Use the notes on the role card to guide the role-play: What is your role?
What background information are you given about the patient and the situation?
What is the primary purpose of the conversation [e.g., explain, find out, reassure,
persuade]?
What other elements of the situation do you know about? [E.g. The patient appears
nervous or angry; you don’t have much time].
Don’t worry if the interlocutor stops the role-play after five minutes – there is no
penalty for not completing all the elements on the role card.
Chapter 2
Step 1
The first step is introducing yourself and your role in a confident and friendly manner. It
helps in establishing rapport with the patient.
(Note: At times, your cue card may suggest that you already know the patient, so an
introduction would not be necessary; however, you may still ask how your patient will prefer
to be addressed).
This depends on how you greet your patient and introduce yourself, ensuring that you
have clarified your role.
• Hello, my name is (your name here), and I will be your attending nurse today.
• Hello, my name is (Your name here), and I am one of the Registered Nurses in
this facility.
• Hello, my name is (Your name here), and I will be looking after you today.
Your introduction will match the setting of the roleplay. If the setting is in the Emergency
Department, you could say:
• Hello, my name is Gurleen, and I am one of the Registered Nurses on duty today.
• Medical Centre
• General Practice
• School
Some people prefer to address the patient as “sir” or “ma’am,” using this language can feel
systematic, as though you are following a script.
The student should ask the patient what he/she would prefer to be called (first name or last
name).
This is merely a matter of courtesy and respect as some people prefer to be called by their
first names while others prefer to be addressed as Mr. or Mrs. followed by their last name.
NOTE: In some cases, you may already know the patient (for instance when the patient is
returning for a follow-up visit or has been admitted to the hospital ward). In those cases, an
introduction may not be necessary. During the preparation time, you could ask the interlocutor
what he/she would prefer to be called, and begin the role play.
For example:
• May I confirm your ID details with you. Please confirm your first and last name for
me.
Step 2
Use the background information to understand what you already know about the patient’s
current situation and use this to formulate the initial question or statement. In other words, the
opening statement or question should match the background information on the cue card.
For instance, if you are meeting the patient for the first time, use the following open-ended
questions to open up the discussion.
• I see that you rang the buzzer. What can I do for you? (When the patient is admitted
to the hospital).
Use a closed-ended question when you already know the reason for patient’s visit, or it’s a
follow-up visit?
For instance:
• Am I right in thinking that you have been referred by your doctor to discuss
regarding your weight/smoking/hypertension? (Depending on the cue card)
• Am I right in thinking that you have come here about your arthritis?
• Am I right in thinking that you are here to talk about your hypertension?
Use the background information in the cue card to identify clues or elements which can form
the basis for your opening question. For instance- if the cue card states that the patient has an
emotional reaction (seems anxious, upset, and angry, frustrated), address this in your opening
question.
• I can see you that seem upset/anxious/angry/frustrated. Could you tell me what is
bothering you?
• I can see you that seem upset/worried/anxious/angry/frustrated. Would you mind
telling me what the problem is?
Step 3: Complete the tasks on the cue card
Plan the execution of the role play depending on the tasks mentioned in the cue- card.
Signposting could be useful to explain the schedule or sequence of the tasks. Since you are
responsible for initiating the role play, these expressions will be helpful in structuring the role
play.
• Shall we start with… and then we will discuss the treatment options later. Is that
okay with you?
• Before proceeding further, I would like to ask you some questions to get a
detailed picture of your situation. Would that be okay?
• Would it be okay if I can ask you some questions about your and then discuss some
things you can do to manage your condition?
• So, here’s what I am going to do. First, I will ask you some questions about your
lifestyle. Then, I would suggest some things you can to do to manage your condition.
And later/after that, I would be happy to answer any questions that you might have.
May I proceed?
Before I take you through the treatment options, I’d like to ask you some
Example 1 – Briefly summarize what has been discussed during the role-play
• To reiterate, you will gradually cut down on the number of cigarettes daily and
join a smoking cessation program.
• Now, if you wouldn’t mind going over the advice, I have just given?
• Now, if you won’t mind, can we go over the advice I have just given?
• I will review your progress after two weeks. (include a timescale, if mentioned
on the cue card)
• What I will do for you right away is.....................(as suggested on the cue card)
Example 3 – Ask the patient if there is anything else that they can be helped with.
• I’m glad that I was able to help today. Is there anything else I can help you with?
• Thank you. Here is a patient-information leaflet which you will find useful. If you
have any additional questions, please do not hesitate to contact me. (if mentioned on
the cue card)
Showing courtesy in OET SPEAKING
Using language that reflects common courtesy will keep your interactions with the patient
respectful and consequently improve rapport.
Below are some other examples of responses that should be avoided and some courteous
phrases that can be used to replace them.
You will need to wait to see the If it’s ok with you, can you wait for some time to
doctor see the doctor?
Let’s look at the most common courtesy words, which can be used in a conversation
as a signal of mutual respect.
“Please”
Do not forget to say please when asking for information from the patient! Doing otherwise
seems rude.
“Thank you.”
When the patient answers your questions and provides information, say Thank you for
answering my questions.
“Sorry”
Doing so demonstrates that someone has taken it personally upon themselves to resolve their
concern/query and helps in reassuring the patient.
“Right away.”
Using this phrase signals that the process addressing the patient’s concern has been enacted.
For example:
“I’ll contact the doctor right away and let him know that you are in pain so he can prescribe
some medication to relieve your pain.”
Using positive words in OET SPEAKING
Definitely
I will definitely make sure that it gets sorted…/the concern is shared with the doctor/Ward
Manager (conflict resolution)
Absolutely
I absolutely agree… (To empathize with patients)….
Certainly
Small changes in your lifestyle will certainly help in making a big difference to your health in
the long run.
Fantastic
That is fantastic (to motivate your patient)
Clarifying a Situation
There will be occasions when the patient feels as though they have fully detailed their
symptoms/condition, yet you cannot quite understand the situation.
“Pardon me.”
Rather than using ‘what?’ Use more formal expression such as ‘Pardon me’ when you miss a
small part of the conversation.
“Forgive me…”
For example, “Forgive me, I didn’t quite catch the last sentence. Could you please repeat it
for me?”
Backtracking – going back to something in the conversation. In OET
Speaking, it can be used to
• I am not sure I understood that completely. Do you mind repeating it for me?
For example:
From what I have understood so far, you have been experiencing indigestion for the past
few weeks, and at times, it is accompanied by headaches which last for a few hours and are
only relieved with medication. You feel the indigestion is caused when you eat rice for
dinner. Is that right?
OR
3. At the end of the role-play as a final summary of what has been agreed so far
For example:
• So, to backtrack,
• Just let me check what you have told me so far… Is that an accurate summary?
Acknowledging a patient’s feelings
To build rapport with your patient, it is vital that the patients feel that their thoughts have
been acknowledged.
• “Now that I’m aware, I will ensure that your concerns are taken care of, and you
don’t face any inconvenience.”
In OET Speaking, signposting can be used at different stages of the role play.
• I’d like to start by asking some general questions to understand your condition.
• If you don’t mind, I am just going to ask you a few questions about your lifestyle.
Would that be okay?
It is a good idea to provide a rationale or reason or asking the question. For example:
If you don’t mind, I want to ask some questions about your medical history. It will help me to
assess your condition in a better way.
To ask permission before moving to the information-
gathering stage.
• Can I start with questions about your lifestyle before discussing treatment options?
• I am going to ask you some questions about your lifestyle. Is that ok?
• If it’s alright with you, I need to ask you some personal questions.
• If you don’t mind, I’d like to ask some questions about your sexual history.
• If you don’t mind, I want to ask you some questions about your sexual partners and
sexual practices. I can appreciate that these questions are very personal, but they are
crucial for the examination.
To outline the sequence of the consultation
• First, I’d like to ask you some questions to get a detailed understanding of your
condition and then we can talk about ways to treat the problem.
• I am going to divide this talk into two parts: I’d like to start by asking you some
questions about your lifestyle and routine and then I will go
on to some suggestions about making changes to your current lifestyle. Is that okay?
• After that, I will take you through some treatment options and things you can do to
manage your condition
• Following that/Finally, you can ask me any questions that you may have.
• What I’d like to do now is to discuss some ways you can manage your present
condition.
• Before I can discuss the treatment options, I’d like to summarize your symptoms to
ensure I have accurate information
• Thank you for answering my questions. I have all the information I need, and now
I’d like to suggest some lifestyle modifications to improve your health.
Closing
• Before we wrap-up, is there anything that you would like to ask?
Chapter 3
Questioning Techniques
Investigating the presenting complaint or taking a
history of the patient
In OET Speaking, asking about the presenting complaint requires a series of questions in a
particular order. During the role-play, you would be making use of both open-ended and closed-
ended questions.
Open-ended questions let the patient answer with something other than yes or no, encouraging
patient elaboration or further conversation with the patient, maximizing opportunities for
listening for understanding and symptom-defining answers. Open questions open up the
discussion and encourage the patient to give a detailed response, allowing patients to express
themselves in their own words.
For example,
• How are you feeling? • Why did you cease taking your
medication?
• How is everything going?
• Which medicine did you take at
• How have you been? home?
• What brings you in today? • How did you hurt your arm?
• What seems to be the problem? • How long have you had the pain
for?
• Who brought you to the hospital?
• Tell me about the pain.
• What did you eat today?
• What are you doing for the pain?
• Where do you feel pain?
• Do you exercise?
• Do you work?
Do you have any pain at the moment? How are you feeling?
Can you come next week on Tuesday for your When are you available for your follow-up
follow up? appointment?
Examples:
• You mentioned that you feel anxious/scared. Could you please tell me more about
it?
• You said that you sometimes get a mild pain in your right shoulder. Do you mind
telling more about it?
Probes: Probing means to inquire into someone or something specifically. Probes are used to ask
for further detail about a specific topic. Probes aren’t necessarily questions; these can be words
or a set of phrases that are used to gain more information about the same topic. In other words,
probes are used to facilitate the patient’s response.
Examples:
Multiple questions- several questions asked at the same time can be confusing for the patient;
therefore, you should ask one question at a time.
• Does the pain always occur in the same place, and how painful is it on a scale of 0-
10 where 0 is no pain and ten is the worst?
This question may be confusing for a patient to answer in case he/she does one of the above. The
patient could be a smoker but not a drinker or vice-versa.
How do you feel this morning – did you get How do you feel this morning? (pause for
enough sleep last night and enough to eat for reply)
breakfast? How did you sleep last night (pause for
reply)?
Where do you live, and how many people Tell me about your living situation.
live with you.
Did stress, travelling or something else What do you think caused the
cause the problem? problem?
What have you been eating this past month? Tell me about your eating habits this past
How much do you eat at one time? How month.
often do you eat?
Leading questions- those that “lead” the patient towards a particular answer.
You are not eating too well, are Have you noticed any
you? changes to your appetite?
Back-channeling can be used to encourage the patient to talk more. It can be used to show
interest, attention and a willingness to keep listening. Back channeling is the feedback you give
to the patient to show that you understand what he/she is saying.
It usually takes the form of utterances such as uh-huh, yeah, mmm, okay, right, I see, ahan, go
on…. OK, wow! Really?
When used appropriately, this can facilitate communication and create rapport between listener
and speaker.
Using a falling tone usually indicates that you think the patient has finished or that you want to
take a turn in the conversation
Examples:
• Tell me more….
• And….
• Uh-hmm…(followed by silence/pause)
Communicating with patients on sensitive or embarrassing topics
When talking with your patients about sensitive or uncomfortable topics, use the following steps to make your p
1.Use probes to investigate a concern further Examples: I hope you don’t mind me asking, but ... would you like
Is there anything else you’d like to tell me about this?
2.Reassure the patient that the consultation is confidential and that they can openly share their information with
3.Justify – provide a rationale for asking questions: explain why certain questions are relevant to the discussion
Examples: This question will help in getting a detailed picture of your condition.
It’s important that I ask you some questions about your sexual history. I know it’s personal, but it will help me i
4.Acknowledge - validate that you have understood what the patient has said and thank them for providing info
Examples: I can understand that this was hard for you to tell me, so I really appreciate your honesty.
Thank you for answering my questions. I know this wasn’t easy. What you’ve told me is really helpful.
Choosing an appropriate language for the patient you are speaking to is an integral part of the
OET speaking test. When your patient is sensitive or embarrassed about the condition, it is better
to use indirect language. Indirect language is unnecessary for conditions which are routine or for
when the patient feels comfortable.
For instance, men and women react differently to illnesses and may be embarrassed or
uncomfortable talking about certain conditions. To encourage such patients, it’s important that
questions are asked politely.
• Tell me ...
• I wondered ...
• I wonder…
• Would you mind if I asked you some question to get a better understanding of
your condition?
• If you don’t mind, I would like to ask you some questions about your
health/general lifestyle before proceeding further.
• Firstly, I would like to talk about your feelings. Are you comfortable discussing
them right now?
• Would you mind telling me about the difficulties you and your children are facing?
• “If I understand you right, you’re saying that…?” or “… you believe that…?” or
“… you feel that…?”
• You mean…………
• So it sounds like…..
• In other words…..
• It looks like…..
• It seems that……
• Is that right?
• Is that correct?
I haven’t been eating well due to having back- In other words, due to competing demands on
to-back meetings at my office. I often skip your time, you have been missing meals and
breakfast because I am running late, and I not eating properly.
don’t get time for lunch due to work, and
dinner is usually a quick bite because I am
busy working on my presentations for the next
day.
The doctor told me to take these antibiotics As I understand it, you stopped taking the
until the pills ran out, but I felt better the next medication when you felt better even though
day, so I stopped. your doctor told you to finish the prescription.
I don’t believe that drinking regularly is bad. I So, what you are saying is, you are not
have been drinking whiskey regularly and convinced that drinking alcohol regularly is
nothing bad has happened to me. dangerous because it hasn’t affected you.
I’d like to lose some weight, but with my To put it another way, you feel that this is a
friend’s weddings around the corner, I feel it difficult time of the year to lose weight.
won’t be possible.
Example
Nurse: Alright. Thank you for answering my questions. Let me ensure I have noted
everything correctly: You have been having chest pain for the past few days which sometimes
radiates to your shoulder. The pain is about a 6 on a scale of 0 to 10 and is a burning feeling
that causes tightness in the chest. The pain usually lasts 10 minutes but can last as long as 40
minutes. Getting overexerted at work seems to trigger the pain, and it gets better with an
aspirin. Is there anything else that you would like to add?
Useful tips When the patient talks for too long
Could I just interrupt you there for a second?
So what I have understood so far is thatIs that right?
What if the patient says something that is confusing or unclear?
Ask the patient for clarification:
I am sorry to interject, but I am not sure I understood that completely. Could you repeat it?
I am sorry to interrupt; I missed the last few words you said.
didn’t quite follow that. Can you say it again, please?
Sorry, could you repeat that for me, please?
Can you please clarify what you mean when you say……?
Do you mean?
Sorry, I don’t understand what you mean.
I am sorry, I am not sure I understand what you mean by….
Sorry, I am not sure I know what you mean.
Active Listening
Picking up on patient cues
(Listening to verbal cues or the change of pace and intonation in the patient’s tone)
You sound a little worried about your situation.
That must have been difficult.
You said that you feel miserable; could you tell me more about these feelings/why you have been feeling this
When you say that “…….”, would you add some information/give more details regarding this?
Identify whether the patient is unconcerned / angry / agitated / sad / nervous / embarrassed ] from cue- card.
• It looks like…..
• It seems that.
• I sense that you are very sad/embarrassed/angry; would it help to talk about it?
• You sound sad/concerned/anxious/unsure when you say this; would it help to talk
about it?
• I sense that you are not quite happy/satisfied/sure with the explanation/about the
advice you have been given – Is that right?
• Am I right in thinking that you are reluctant/resistant to the advice you have been
given?
Pauses
Pauses play a significant role in your OET Speaking and encourage patient understanding and
participation. They are used to separate different thoughts or ideas. You should pause
periodically to allow the listener to digest the message you have delivered to that point.
Consider the change in impact when you practice the dialogue given below with and without
pauses.
Now, Ralph, I’d like to briefly summarize your history to be sure I have the details correct.
You have been suffering from stomach pain since yesterday, and you have experienced some
heartburn. You have taken medication from the pharmacy, but it has not relieved your
symptoms. Is that right so far?
Now, Ralph, (Pause) I’d like to briefly summarize your history (Pause) to be sure I have the
details correct. (Pause) You have been suffering from stomach pain since yesterday (pause),
and you have experienced some heartburn. You have taken medication from the pharmacy
(pause), but it has not relieved your symptoms(pause). Is that right so far?
Pausing at each stage enables the listener to absorb the information and, if necessary, gives
them the opportunity to stop and correct you.
Let’s quickly revise what we have learnt up to this point.
Steps involved when taking a patient’s history in OET Speaking
Establishing rapport
(Begin with a nice greeting; introduce yourself and your role in a welcoming manner)
Questioning technique for gathering information: Use the cone technique for taking the history of
the patient- moving from open to closed questions.
Using verbal facilitation skills as Back channeling “I see, go on” to encourage the patient’s
responses
• Could you elaborate more about the problems you have been having?
• So, I’d just like to briefly summarize your history to be sure I have the details correct
Is that right so far?
Normalizing statements
Some patients may have difficulty in disclosing some information about their problem or
condition, especially if they are anxious or embarrassed or uncomfortable talking about it.
One way of reassuring the patient is to use normalizing statements, i.e., statements that
normalize their problem. These statements are used to let your patient know that they are not
alone in having certain problems, symptoms, or experiences.
Starting your sentence with phrases like this is a common problem, many people feel
..., many people tell me ..., often I have been told that ... can make the patients comfortable
and encourage them to volunteer information about sensitive topics.
Examples:
• A lot of people have difficulty in taking the initial steps to lose weight.
• It is a common occurrence, and it’s not unusual for this to happen for people in your
age group.
•
Eliciting information: Communicating with challenging or withdrawn
patients
• You seem very low in yourself. Can you tell me what’s going on?
• You seem very sad – can I ask what you are thinking?
• I can see that you look very anxious- would you mind telling me what is bothering
you?
• I can understand it’s hard as it’s a big change in your life, and it’s natural to feel
overwhelmed. Having said that, I am here to assist you.
• I know this must be distressing you. That being said, I am here to help you. (validating
a patient’s concern who is anxious, concerned or upset)
• You seem very far away! (used in case the patient is withdrawn or unresponsive)
Please tell me what is on your mind.
• How are you feeling at the moment? How do you feel right now?
• I appreciate (appreciate here means to understand) the problems this has caused you.
• I can understand your frustration, but this is the only option we have at the moment to
ensure that you remain in good general health. (used to persuade a patient)
• I am sorry that you feel…………………… I can assure you it wasn’t intentional. (if the
patient is angry)
Empathetic Phrases
Empathy is a vital component of any health practitioner-patient relationship and has been
associated with improved patient outcomes. Empathetic phrases enhance the therapeutic
effectiveness of your communication as well increase the efficiency of gathering information
from the patient.
Some useful expressions that can demonstrate sensitivity and empathy during your
consultation are:
• Can you bear to tell me just how you have been feeling?
• Have you told me enough about how you are feeling to help me understand
things?
• I think I understand now a little of what you have been feeling. Let’s look at the
practical things that we can do together.
• I can see that this has been very difficult for you to cope with.
• I can appreciate how difficult it is for you to talk about this (here, appreciate
means to understand)
• I can sense how angry you have been feeling about your illness.
• That must have been (past)/must be (present) very difficult /tiring /Frightening
/Painful/ Emotionally draining for you.
• I can perfectly understand how difficult that must for you to cope with.
• It can be quite distressing, but there are ways to help manage it.
• I can appreciate that it’s difficult to follow these instructions or I can appreciate that
it’s difficult to make these changes in your lifestyle. However, it is imperative that
you do this to ensure good general health or to ensure a complete recovery.
• I have noticed that you seem a little uncomfortable with this suggestion. Having said
that, this would be very beneficial for you or this would improve your health.
• I can understand why you feel that way, and it can be overwhelming.
When giving instructions, use tentative language such as (I was wondering) or modal verbs
such as (this might be, could you….., would you……) as it softens the instruction. Doing this
makes your patients feel like they are responding to suggestions instead of being told what to
do.
Direct Indirect
You need to stop smoking (this might be If you could try to cease smoking, it would
considered a too direct and comes across as a be very beneficial for your health.
command rather than an instruction).
You need to lose weight If you could try to lose some weight, it
would be very helpful for maintaining good
health.
You need to cut down on salty and fat- Would you be able to cut down on salty
rich foods. and fat-rich foods?
You will need to incorporate some physical I would recommend that you incorporate
activity into your routine. some physical activity into your routine.
If you want to lose weight, you should Could you try substituting the pizza that you
substitute items like pizza with a salad to have for lunch with a salad? It would be very
control the number of calories you consume. helpful in controlling the daily calorie
intake.
Use polite expressions to give advice:
• Are you willing to...?
• Would you at least give me time/a chance to suggest some ways to manage
your condition?
• Let’s consider some ways by which you can incorporate healthier changes in your
life.
• Would you like to try and quit smoking? There are medications and support groups
available for people who want to quit smoking. If you like, I can get you some
information about it.
• I’d like you to focus on what we can do now to improve your health. Have
considered giving up smoking?
• Exercise will benefit in maintaining good health. I know it might be little difficult at
first but it will have a profound impact on your health in the long run.
• I think you could start by walking 15 minutes every alternate day and gradually
increase the duration
Version 1 (Judgmental Version 2 (Non-judgmental
approach towards the approach towards the patient’s
patient’s smoking) smoking)
Nurse: Hello Sigma. Nurse: Hello Sigma.
Nurse: How are you feeling? Nurse: You seem disturbed. How are you
feeling?
Sigma: I can’t seem to catch my breath Sigma: I can’t seem to catch my breath
these days. It’s really scary these days. It’s really scary
Nurse: Well, no wonder. All those years of Nurse: I can see that you are concerned.
smoking have affected your health now. Could you tell me more about it?
(judgmental about patient’s smoking)
Sigma: You are making me feel guilty. Sigma: Yes, I am frequently out of breath.
The other day, I was at the supermarket,
and I found myself gasping for breath.
Nurse: I didn’t mean to make you feel that Nurse: I understand how difficult that must
way. It’s just the reality. (no reassurance) be. Let’s focus on what we can do now to
improve your health. If you do not mind me
saying, this may have to do with your
smoking. Have you thought about quitting?
re-start again.
…..Secondly,…………., Next,………
• There are three things you need to consider. First of all, you should lose weight.
Then, you must cut down…… Finally,…………………..
• Let me briefly outline what you can do to ensure good general health.
In addition,/Besides this, you could include portions of fruits and vegetables in your diet.
There are a few things I need to tell you about managing your current situation. Firstly,
• I want to suggest a few things which you can do to ensure a full recovery.
Definitely- If you comply with my advice, it will definitely improve your health
Especially – To ensure good health, you will need to make changes to your lifestyle,
especially your smoking. I am concerned about your health, and I want you to know that
quitting smoking is the most important thing you can do to protect your current and future
health.
Reassure - I reassure you that you will be able to make a complete recovery if you adhere to
these instructions.
Persuading reluctant or difficult patients
Use the following phrases to explain and highlight why adherence to your advice is
important
• Your weight is not in the ideal range, and I am concerned about the long-term effects
on your health.
• Your weight is higher than it should be, and I am concerned about your health.
• I understand what you are saying, but you must consider the long-term effects it can
have on your health. I know it’s hard, but I am afraid there’s no other way. If you do
not make these changes, you run the risk of....
• It is imperative that you lose weight, else it can make you susceptible to serious
complications for the future
• It is paramount…….
• It is indispensable……
• It is crucial………
• It would be helpful…
• It is important for you to start doing some kinds of exercise for at least 20 minutes
every day.
• I am concerned about your health and want the best possible outcome for you.
• It is necessary for you to cut down on some of the foods in your diet that are not
particularly healthy. For instance, fried foods or foods rich in cholesterol.
• It is indispensable that you quit smoking or at least try to cut down on the number
of cigarettes you smoke per day.
• It is crucial that you reduce your weight to avoid adverse effects on your health.
• In cases like these, the first thing to try is changing your lifestyle.
• I suggest that….
• I advise that…..
• It is essential…
• This might not be what you were hoping to hear but the best way to improve
your health is….
Checking patient’s acceptance:
• Is that okay?
• I hope I have cleared up/assuaged your worries? Does that make you feel a bit
better?
However, it must be genuine and truthful; otherwise, it can become false reassurance.
Patient: I have had this infection for three weeks now, and the pain keeps getting worse. I am
so sick of this. I hate living like this. Is there a qualified doctor in this hospital who can make
me feel better?
Nurse: I understand that it has been quite challenging for you with all that you have been
going through. Indeed, health concerns can be very draining. I just want to let you know that
you are in the right place, and we are doing our very best to care for you.
Patient: It’s my second week in the hospital. My accident was seven days ago. Will I ever get
better?
Nurse: I can see that you are concerned about your health, but it can take several weeks to
recover for the injuries to heal completely. Having said that, you are making steady progress.
Patient: No one cares in this hospital. I rang the buzzer so many times, but it seems that no
one is bothered to check on me.
Nurse: I understand that you are angry. I was attending to a critical patient and therefore
couldn’t be here earlier. That being said, your health is my priority, and I will ensure that you
are looked after properly.
Patient: I have been independent all my life, and I do not want to become dependent on
medication. I can tolerate this pain.
Nurse: I understand your perspective. However, at this time, it is imperative to relive your
body of the pain so it can focus on healing itself. Therefore, you must take the medication.
Also, regarding your concern about becoming addicted, I assure you that nothing of this
would happen as this is a temporary arrangement.
Reassuring statements
• I hear what you are saying. You are concerned about your health.
• It’s ok to cry when you feel like it. I can wait for you.
• I appreciate that you are worried. Is there anything I can do for you?
• I know you are concerned that your progress is slow, but you are making
steady progress and would recuperate soon.
• You did the right thing coming to the hospital. We have experienced doctors and
the latest equipment to treat your condition.
• It’s ok to cry.
• I will do everything I can to make you feel comfortable during your stay.
• Would you like me to contact the social worker to talk with you about any services
that might be available for you while you recover your strength?
• With rest, the right medication, and a stress-free mind, you will feel better.
Showing Empathy
Empathy is the ability to experience a situation through the eyes and feelings of another person.
Empathy allows your patient to feel greater acceptance.
• That must have been (present perfect for actions that began in the past)/must be
(present) very
• I understand why you have this concern. Having said that……(give advice)
• I can see that you are not happy with this suggestion.
• I can see you are anxious about making changes to your routine.
Nevertheless,.
• I completely understand that it must be very difficult for you, considering the
stage you are in, it must be overwhelming!
• Your concerns are understandable. It’s not unusual for people to react in this way.
• I understand you dislike this idea. It’s common for people to feel this way.
• I completely understand that it must be very difficult for you, considering the
stage you are in, it must be overwhelming!
• Your concerns are understandable. It’s not unusual for people to react in this way.
• I understand you dislike this idea. It’s common for people to feel this way.
• I can see why you have this concern. Having said that……
For instance,
• This Clinic/This hospital has an excellent reputation, and your health and safety is
our utmost priority
• There is no need to be alarmed. The staff here is very competent and will look
after you diligently.
• I am a qualified nurse with good nursing experience. Please do not worry at all
• Of course, the final decision is up to you. However, the sooner it will be done, the
better!
• Believe me; if there were another way, I would have told you.
• We will be here to look after you. or We are here to look after you.
• Please relax; we are here to help you and to suggest how to manage.
• Believe me; if there were another way, I would have told you.
• Please relax; we are here to help you and to suggest how to manage.
• If you do not take your medication on time, it might delay the recovery time.
• I know it’s not easy, but it’s imperative that you adhere to this advice to recover
from your illness.
• I can see you have concerns regarding this. That being said, it’s vital that you
follow my advice to ensure good general health.
• I understand it’s not easy, and it’s tough to make changes to a busy schedule, but as
I see it- there’s no alternative. If not make some changes now, you run the risk
of......
• This is the reason why you need to get admitted/undergo this treatment
• Is that okay?
• I appreciate what you are saying, and It’s your right to get discharged/refuse
treatment with an informed understanding of the risks involved in this decision. Can
I explain something the risks associated with getting discharged against medical
advice/refusing medication or treatment? Would that be okay?
• I understand that the final decision is up to you. However, you must understand
the risks involved with this. Is it alright okay if I can discuss that with you?
Negotiating
• I’d like to propose that…
• I recommend/suggest…
• This is because…
Prioritizing Interests
• The most important issue for us is…
• If you do not comply with my treatment advice, your condition might deteriorate.
Checking patient’s agreement
• Is that acceptable to you?
• Do we have an agreement?
• Would it be okay if we discuss how your weight can be managed to ensure it’s in
a healthy range?
• If you don’t mind, I’d like to discuss some ways you can incorporate some
physical activity into your life to adopt a heart-healthy lifestyle.
For example: Instead of saying, “You are obese and need to reduce weight.”, say “Your
weight is above the normal range; to ensure good health, it’s advisable to lose the excess
weight.”
I do understand your reluctance. It’s a daunting prospect to make changes to your everyday
routine; however, you must consider the risks associated with carrying excess
weight/smoking/sedentary lifestyle/etc.
Reducing your alcohol intake is an essential step towards avoiding medical problems like
cardiovascular disease or fatty liver disease.
Example: If a patient eats large servings or portions of food in a day, provide tips about
slowing down when eating, filling up on lower-calorie foods and downsizing instead of
upsizing.
For others who skip meals, emphasize the importance of eating balanced meals
throughout the day.
Ask questions about your patient’s lifestyle and everyday activities so that you can
suggest practical, manageable, and measurable goals.
For example, I understand your perspective. How about this? You can begin with 15
minutes of walk daily and gradually increase the duration of the walks.
You could also refer your patient to a support group or offer a patient information leaflet
for better management of the specific condition you are advising them on. Be sure to provide
advice that causes minimum disruption in their lives.
Step 2 – Justify your advice by explaining the consequences of non- compliance and
make the patient realize that they are responsible for their health.
Thanks for coming in. (not to be used when the patient is admitted in the hospital or
during a home visit).
Set goals for the discussion – seek the patient’s permission before asking questions
or introducing a discussion.
“I’d like to go over your test reports, would that be ok?” “Today I plan to discuss…is
that okay?”
“Before, proceeding further, I’d like to ask you some questions. It will help me in
getting a clearer picture of your condition. Is that okay?”
“The doctor is worried about your weight. Is it okay if I ask you some questions
about your eating habits and lifestyle?”
“I’m concerned about your uncontrolled sugar levels. Would it be alright if I asked
you some questions first?”
“I’m wondering if you mind answering some questions about your medical history.
It will help me to understand the situation much better.”
Open-Ended Questions
“Could you tell me something about your eating habits?” (Focused question – open
question but limits the scope)
Closed-Ended Questions
“Do you have any ongoing medical illnesses?” “Do you drink alcohol?”
“Does anyone in your family suffer from this condition too?” “Did you take any
medication before coming here?”
Use an empathizing statement to show that you recognize the patient’s emotion and
understand it.
“I’m sorry this has happened, and I understand how it would make you feel that
way.”
“I hear what you’re saying. That must have been very difficult.”
“I can see it’s really difficult for you to talk about this.” “I can appreciate that it isn’t
easy to talk about this”
“I do understand that it’s stressful to talk about this.” “It must be hard to talk about
this”
Facilitating
• Do not interrupt the patient, but use back-channeling (Okay, uh-huh, hmmm, I see,
Alright, go on…etc.) to facilitate the conversation.
“I can see that you sound/seem anxious. Could you tell me more about what’s
bothering you?”
Clarifying
Do not use medical jargon and explain the facts in a manner that the patient will
understand.
“Do you have any questions that I can answer at this stage?” “Are you clear with
what I have just explained?”
“Would you like to ask any questions about what I have just explained?”
“I can see that this has made you anxious. Would you like to share what’s on your
mind?”
Checking the patient’s understanding
Ask what the patient already knows and take note of the discrepancies in the patient’s
understanding and what is actually true.
“Please tell me what you understand about your condition until now.”
“Could you tell me what you know about your condition so far?”
“To ensure we are on the same page with understanding your condition, so can you
tell me…”
You may not agree with the patient’s feeling or way of thinking but respond
empathetically to show that you respect the patient’s perspective.
“That must have felt terrible when...” “Most people would be upset about this.”
3- step approach
(Use a normalizing statement like: “Most people would feel that way.”)
“Given the risks associated with non-adherence, I strongly advise you to consider
my advice.”
“I can understand your reluctance, but it’s important that you prioritize your health.”
“I strongly urge you to comply with this advice; otherwise, the repercussions could
be harmful to your health.”
More examples:
“I understand your resistance and many people would think the same, but I’m
afraid, there’s no other option at the moment. You need to priorities your health.”
“It’s never easy making lifestyle changes, but it’s imperative for your health
currently; not doing so would put you at risk of serious harm.”
“I can understand your perspective, but if you do not comply with my advice, it
could lead to adverse effects on your health.”
Reiterate/Summarize the discussion or the advice provided or clarify with the patient
their expectations of treatment and outcome.
Ask the patient to repeat back to you their understanding of the plan.
“To check your understanding, could you please repeat back to me what we have
discussed today?”
• As well as this –also- As well as this, she also consumes a fat-rich diet.
• Reiterate –repeat- to reiterate what we discussed today, you will have to make
changes…../To reiterate what you just said, you have a stressful job, and you barely
get time to exercise, is that correct?
• Perhaps- used to express uncertainty- Perhaps, you could consider cutting down on
smoking/drinking one day at a time.
• Probably- used to express uncertainty- Probably, you can join a support group like
Alcoholics anonymous to meet people who are in the same condition.
• Mitigate- make something less severe or painful- Painkillers will help to mitigate
the pain.
Synonyms: reduce/ease/relieve
• Alleviate – Painkillers will help to alleviate the pain. Is there anything that alleviates
your pain?
• To begin with - used for enumeration- To begin with, I will explain... after that.......
then.....following that......Finally.......
Synonyms- crucial/essential/critical
• You seem distressed, is there anything on your mind that you would like to discuss
with me?