fix arg mapping; remove assert; support other buffer

…ytorch#139659)

### Motivation
Today, watchdog only reports that it found a collective timeout:
```
[rank1]:[E1104 14:02:18.767594328 ProcessGroupNCCL.cpp:688] [Rank 1] Watchdog caught collective operation timeout: WorkNCCL(SeqNum=1, OpType=ALLREDUCE, NumelIn=200, NumelOut=200, Timeout(ms)=5000) ran for 5096 milliseconds before timing out.
```
While this is nice, it is hard to associate the error with user's program or library stack.

### This PR
This PR gives watchdog the ability to report the call-time stack of the collective, so that it would be easier to track the error back to the program's behavior.

The call-time stack was recorded by Flight Recorder with minimal overhead (for details, please read this [doc](https://dev-discuss.pytorch.org/t/fast-combined-c-python-torchscript-inductor-tracebacks/1158) written by @zdevito ). In `ProcessGroupNCCL`, we are only tracking / reporting the python part so that it fits most PyTorch users.

### Demo
[stack_demo.py](https://gist.github.com/kwen2501/6758e18d305d67fc6f3f926217825c09).

```
TORCH_NCCL_TRACE_BUFFER_SIZE=100 torchrun --nproc-per-node 2 stack_demo.py
```
`TORCH_NCCL_TRACE_BUFFER_SIZE` is for turning on the Flight Recorder.

Output:
```
[rank0]:[E1104 14:19:27.591610653 ProcessGroupNCCL.cpp:695] Stack trace of the timedout collective operation:
#0 all_reduce from /data/users/kw2501/pytorch/torch/distributed/distributed_c10d.py:2696
#1 wrapper from /data/users/kw2501/pytorch/torch/distributed/c10d_logger.py:83
pytorch#2 bar from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:15
pytorch#3 foo from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:24
pytorch#4 main from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:34
pytorch#5 <module> from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:40

[rank1]:[E1104 14:19:27.771430164 ProcessGroupNCCL.cpp:695] Stack trace of the timedout collective operation:
#0 all_gather_into_tensor from /data/users/kw2501/pytorch/torch/distributed/distributed_c10d.py:3630
#1 wrapper from /data/users/kw2501/pytorch/torch/distributed/c10d_logger.py:83
pytorch#2 baz from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:20
pytorch#3 foo from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:26
pytorch#4 main from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:34
pytorch#5 <module> from /data/users/kw2501/sync_async/repro.py:40
```

From the log above, we can tell that `bar()` and `baz()` are the places where the two ranks divert.

Pull Request resolved: pytorch#139659
Approved by: https://github.com/wconstab, https://github.com/fduwjj

See pytorch#140725 (comment)
Running `torch.mps.synchronize()` after metal kernel resulted in infinite wait inside `[_MTLCommandBuffer waitUntilCompleted]`
```
(lldb) bt
* thread #1, queue = 'com.apple.main-thread', stop reason = signal SIGSTOP
  * frame #0: 0x00000001aa919084 Metal`pthread_cond_wait + 12
    frame #1: 0x00000001aa78b1b4 Metal`-[_MTLCommandBuffer waitUntilCompleted] + 84
    frame pytorch#2: 0x00000001032bf358 libtorch_python.dylib`torch::mps::MPSModule_deviceSynchronize(_object*, _object*) + 40
    frame pytorch#3: 0x0000000100e94c20 Python`cfunction_vectorcall_NOARGS + 100
    frame pytorch#4: 0x0000000100e389b8 Python`PyObject_Vectorcall + 92
    frame pytorch#5: 0x0000000100f61e38 Python`_PyEval_EvalFrameDefault + 19040
    frame pytorch#6: 0x0000000100f5d180 Python`PyEval_EvalCode + 200
    frame pytorch#7: 0x0000000100fcd1a4 Python`run_eval_code_obj + 104
    frame pytorch#8: 0x0000000100fccbe4 Python`run_mod + 168
    frame pytorch#9: 0x0000000100fcb518 Python`pyrun_file + 164
    frame pytorch#10: 0x0000000100fca854 Python`_PyRun_SimpleFileObject + 256
    frame pytorch#11: 0x0000000100fca4e8 Python`_PyRun_AnyFileObject + 80
    frame pytorch#12: 0x0000000100ff2028 Python`pymain_run_file_obj + 164
    frame pytorch#13: 0x0000000100ff1ce4 Python`pymain_run_file + 72
    frame pytorch#14: 0x0000000100ff0f74 Python`Py_RunMain + 988
    frame pytorch#15: 0x0000000100ff1564 Python`pymain_main + 304
    frame pytorch#16: 0x0000000100ff1604 Python`Py_BytesMain + 40
    frame pytorch#17: 0x000000019f630274 dyld`start + 2840
```

Pull Request resolved: pytorch#141296
Approved by: https://github.com/huydhn

# Motivation
Fix #143543

# Solution
We should raise python exception instead of aborting...

# Additional Context
without this PR:
```python
>>> import torch
>>> torch.accelerator.current_stream(torch.accelerator.device_count())
terminate called after throwing an instance of 'c10::Error'
  what():  device is out of range, device is 2, total number of device is 2.
Exception raised from check_device_index at /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/c10/xpu/XPUFunctions.h:36 (most recent call first):
frame #0: c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) + 0xac (0x7f30707eb95c in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libc10.so)
frame #1: c10::detail::torchCheckFail(char const*, char const*, unsigned int, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > const&) + 0xf3 (0x7f307078fc57 in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libc10.so)
frame #2: <unknown function> + 0x19a3e (0x7f3070c2ba3e in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libc10_xpu.so)
frame #3: c10::xpu::getCurrentXPUStream(signed char) + 0x2f (0x7f3070c2c83f in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libc10_xpu.so)
frame #4: <unknown function> + 0x1ca35 (0x7f3070c2ea35 in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libc10_xpu.so)
frame #5: <unknown function> + 0x653f15 (0x7f3083391f15 in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libtorch_python.so)
frame #6: <unknown function> + 0x39e5f2 (0x7f30830dc5f2 in /home/dvrogozh/git/pytorch/pytorch/torch/lib/libtorch_python.so)
<omitting python frames>
frame #20: <unknown function> + 0x29d90 (0x7f308b19bd90 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6)
frame #21: __libc_start_main + 0x80 (0x7f308b19be40 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6)

Aborted (core dumped)
```
with this PR:
```python
>>> import torch
>>> torch.accelerator.current_stream(torch.accelerator.device_count())
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<stdin>", line 1, in <module>
  File "/home/pt-gpu/4T-4652/guangyey/stock-pytorch/torch/accelerator/__init__.py", line 123, in current_stream
    return torch._C._accelerator_getStream(device_index)
RuntimeError: The device index is out of range. It must be in [0, 2), but got 2.
```

Pull Request resolved: #143550
Approved by: https://github.com/EikanWang, https://github.com/dvrogozh, https://github.com/albanD

…ention"


Thanks to manman-ren who verified that triton-lang/triton#4247 fixes this issue as well. This is not currently cherry-picked into pytorch-triton.

========= COMPUTE-SANITIZER
Test completed successfully!
========= ERROR SUMMARY: 0 errors
## NOTE:
HMM very interestingly:
If the og_headdim is a odd this works as expected. However when the og_head_dim is a multiple of 2 this segfaults here:
```Shell
(lldb) bt
* thread #67, name = 'pt_autograd_0', stop reason = signal SIGSEGV: address not mapped to object (fault address: 0x10)
  * frame #0: 0x00007ffed327fbfe libtriton.so`scheduleRemainingToLastStage(forOp=ForOp @ 0x00007ffcafdfd658, schedule=0x00007ffcafdfd9e0, afterPrologue=<unavailable>, numStages=2) at MatmulLoopPipeline.cpp:893:9
    frame #1: 0x00007ffed328d970 libtriton.so`mlir::triton::preProcessLoopAndGetSchedule(forOp=0x00007ffcafdfddc0, numStages=2, options=0x00007ffcafdfde80) at MatmulLoopPipeline.cpp:1230:31
    frame #2: 0x00007ffed32a6a43 libtriton.so`mlir::triton::gpu::PipelinePass::runOnOperation() [inlined] pipelineLoop(numStages=2, forOp=ForOp @ 0x00007ffcafdfddc0) at SoftwarePipeliner.cpp:79:47
    frame #3: 0x00007ffed32a6998 libtriton.so`mlir::triton::gpu::PipelinePass::runOnOperation(this=0x00007ffc54767f10) at SoftwarePipeliner.cpp:125:36
    frame #4: 0x00007ffed385147c libtriton.so`mlir::detail::OpToOpPassAdaptor::run(mlir::Pass*, mlir::Operation*, mlir::AnalysisManager, bool, unsigned int) + 700
    frame #5: 0x00007ffed3851df2 libtriton.so`mlir::detail::OpToOpPassAdaptor::runPipeline(mlir::OpPassManager&, mlir::Operation*, mlir::AnalysisManager, bool, unsigned int, mlir::PassInstrumentor*, mlir::PassInstrumentation::PipelineParentInfo const*) + 354
    frame #6: 0x00007ffed385481c libtriton.so`mlir::PassManager::run(mlir::Operation*) + 876
    frame #7: 0x00007ffed3542bad libtriton.so`<lambda(mlir::PassManager&, mlir::ModuleOp&)>::operator(self=<unavailable>, mod=0x00007ffc54579280, __closure=<unavailable>)(mlir::PassManager &, mlir::ModuleOp &) at ir.cc:1625:19
    frame #8: 0x00007ffed3560108 libtriton.so`_FUN [inlined] operator(this=0x0000000000000000, call=0x00007ffcafdfe6e0) at cast.h:1480:37
    frame #9: 0x00007ffed35600f0 libtriton.so`_FUN((null)=0x00007ffcafdfe6e0) at pybind11.h:224:21
    frame #10: 0x00007ffed9ae5590 libtriton.so`typeinfo for pybind11::handle + 24
    frame #11: 0x00007ffed9ae5590 libtriton.so`typeinfo for pybind11::handle + 24
```




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[ghstack-poisoned]

Thanks to manman-ren who verified that triton-lang/triton#4247 fixes this issue as well. This is not currently cherry-picked into pytorch-triton.

========= COMPUTE-SANITIZER
Test completed successfully!
========= ERROR SUMMARY: 0 errors
## NOTE:
HMM very interestingly:
If the og_headdim is a odd this works as expected. However when the og_head_dim is a multiple of 2 this segfaults here:
```Shell
(lldb) bt
* thread #67, name = 'pt_autograd_0', stop reason = signal SIGSEGV: address not mapped to object (fault address: 0x10)
  * frame #0: 0x00007ffed327fbfe libtriton.so`scheduleRemainingToLastStage(forOp=ForOp @ 0x00007ffcafdfd658, schedule=0x00007ffcafdfd9e0, afterPrologue=<unavailable>, numStages=2) at MatmulLoopPipeline.cpp:893:9
    frame #1: 0x00007ffed328d970 libtriton.so`mlir::triton::preProcessLoopAndGetSchedule(forOp=0x00007ffcafdfddc0, numStages=2, options=0x00007ffcafdfde80) at MatmulLoopPipeline.cpp:1230:31
    frame #2: 0x00007ffed32a6a43 libtriton.so`mlir::triton::gpu::PipelinePass::runOnOperation() [inlined] pipelineLoop(numStages=2, forOp=ForOp @ 0x00007ffcafdfddc0) at SoftwarePipeliner.cpp:79:47
    frame #3: 0x00007ffed32a6998 libtriton.so`mlir::triton::gpu::PipelinePass::runOnOperation(this=0x00007ffc54767f10) at SoftwarePipeliner.cpp:125:36
    frame #4: 0x00007ffed385147c libtriton.so`mlir::detail::OpToOpPassAdaptor::run(mlir::Pass*, mlir::Operation*, mlir::AnalysisManager, bool, unsigned int) + 700
    frame #5: 0x00007ffed3851df2 libtriton.so`mlir::detail::OpToOpPassAdaptor::runPipeline(mlir::OpPassManager&, mlir::Operation*, mlir::AnalysisManager, bool, unsigned int, mlir::PassInstrumentor*, mlir::PassInstrumentation::PipelineParentInfo const*) + 354
    frame #6: 0x00007ffed385481c libtriton.so`mlir::PassManager::run(mlir::Operation*) + 876
    frame #7: 0x00007ffed3542bad libtriton.so`<lambda(mlir::PassManager&, mlir::ModuleOp&)>::operator(self=<unavailable>, mod=0x00007ffc54579280, __closure=<unavailable>)(mlir::PassManager &, mlir::ModuleOp &) at ir.cc:1625:19
    frame #8: 0x00007ffed3560108 libtriton.so`_FUN [inlined] operator(this=0x0000000000000000, call=0x00007ffcafdfe6e0) at cast.h:1480:37
    frame #9: 0x00007ffed35600f0 libtriton.so`_FUN((null)=0x00007ffcafdfe6e0) at pybind11.h:224:21
    frame #10: 0x00007ffed9ae5590 libtriton.so`typeinfo for pybind11::handle + 24
    frame #11: 0x00007ffed9ae5590 libtriton.so`typeinfo for pybind11::handle + 24
```




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[ghstack-poisoned]

Which inherits from `RuntimeError` and contains `error_code`, which in case of CUDA should contain error returned by `cudaGetLastError`

`torch::detail::_new_accelerator_error_object(c10::AcceleratorError&)` follows the pattern of CPython's  [`PyErr_SetString`](https://github.com/python/cpython/blob/cb8a72b301f47e76d93a7fe5b259e9a5758792e1/Python/errors.c#L282), namely
- Convert cstr into Python string with `PyUnicode_FromString`
- Create new exception object using `PyObject_CallOneArg` just like it's done in [`_PyErr_CreateException`](https://github.com/python/cpython/blob/cb8a72b301f47e76d93a7fe5b259e9a5758792e1/Python/errors.c#L32)
- Set `error_code` property using `PyObject_SetAttrString`
- decref all temporary references

Test that it works and captures CPP backtrace (in addition to CI) by running
```python
import os
os.environ['TORCH_SHOW_CPP_STACKTRACES'] = '1'

import torch

x = torch.rand(10, device="cuda")
y = torch.arange(20, device="cuda")
try:
    x[y] = 2
    print(x)
except torch.AcceleratorError as e:
    print("Exception was raised", e.args[0])
    print("Captured error code is ", e.error_code)
```

which produces following output
```
Exception was raised CUDA error: device-side assert triggered
CUDA kernel errors might be asynchronously reported at some other API call, so the stacktrace below might be incorrect.
For debugging consider passing CUDA_LAUNCH_BLOCKING=1
Compile with `TORCH_USE_CUDA_DSA` to enable device-side assertions.

Exception raised from c10_cuda_check_implementation at /home/ubuntu/pytorch/c10/cuda/CUDAException.cpp:41 (most recent call first):
C++ CapturedTraceback:
#4 std::_Function_handler<std::shared_ptr<c10::LazyValue<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > > const> (), c10::SetStackTraceFetcher(std::function<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > ()>)::{lambda()#1}>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) from Logging.cpp:0
#5 c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) from ??:0
#6 c10::cuda::c10_cuda_check_implementation(int, char const*, char const*, int, bool) [clone .cold] from CUDAException.cpp:0
#7 void at::native::gpu_kernel_impl<at::native::AbsFunctor<float> >(at::TensorIteratorBase&, at::native::AbsFunctor<float> const&) [clone .isra.0] from tmpxft_000191fc_00000000-6_AbsKernel.cudafe1.cpp:0
#8 at::native::abs_kernel_cuda(at::TensorIteratorBase&) from ??:0
#9 at::Tensor& at::native::unary_op_impl_with_complex_to_float_out<at::native::abs_stub_DECLARE_DISPATCH_type>(at::Tensor&, at::Tensor const&, at::native::abs_stub_DECLARE_DISPATCH_type&, bool) [clone .constprop.0] from UnaryOps.cpp:0
#10 at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CUDA_out_abs_out(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor&) from RegisterCUDA_0.cpp:0
#11 at::_ops::abs_out::call(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor&) from ??:0
#12 at::native::abs(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
#13 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&), &at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CompositeExplicitAutograd__abs>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<at::Tensor const&> >, at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from RegisterCompositeExplicitAutograd_0.cpp:0
#14 at::_ops::abs::redispatch(c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
#15 torch::autograd::VariableType::(anonymous namespace)::abs(c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from VariableType_1.cpp:0
#16 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&), &torch::autograd::VariableType::(anonymous namespace)::abs>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&> >, at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from VariableType_1.cpp:0
#17 at::_ops::abs::call(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
#18 at::native::isfinite(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
#19 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&), &at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CompositeImplicitAutograd__isfinite>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<at::Tensor const&> >, at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from RegisterCompositeImplicitAutograd_0.cpp:0
#20 at::_ops::isfinite::call(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
#21 torch::autograd::THPVariable_isfinite(_object*, _object*, _object*) from python_torch_functions_2.cpp:0
#22 PyObject_CallFunctionObjArgs from ??:0
#23 _PyObject_MakeTpCall from ??:0
#24 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
#25 _PyObject_FastCallDictTstate from ??:0
#26 _PyStack_AsDict from ??:0
#27 _PyObject_MakeTpCall from ??:0
#28 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
#29 _PyFunction_Vectorcall from ??:0
#30 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
#31 _PyFunction_Vectorcall from ??:0
#32 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
#33 _PyFunction_Vectorcall from ??:0
#34 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
#35 PyFrame_GetCode from ??:0
#36 PyNumber_Xor from ??:0
#37 PyObject_Str from ??:0
#38 PyFile_WriteObject from ??:0
#39 _PyWideStringList_AsList from ??:0
#40 _PyDict_NewPresized from ??:0
#41 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
#42 PyEval_EvalCode from ??:0
#43 PyEval_EvalCode from ??:0
#44 PyUnicode_Tailmatch from ??:0
#45 PyInit__collections from ??:0
#46 PyUnicode_Tailmatch from ??:0
#47 _PyRun_SimpleFileObject from ??:0
#48 _PyRun_AnyFileObject from ??:0
#49 Py_RunMain from ??:0
#50 Py_BytesMain from ??:0
#51 __libc_init_first from ??:0
#52 __libc_start_main from ??:0
#53 _start from ??:0

Captured error code is  710
```
Pull Request resolved: #152023
Approved by: https://github.com/eqy, https://github.com/mradmila, https://github.com/ngimel
ghstack dependencies: #154436

Which inherits from `RuntimeError` and contains `error_code`, which in case of CUDA should contain error returned by `cudaGetLastError`

`torch::detail::_new_accelerator_error_object(c10::AcceleratorError&)` follows the pattern of CPython's  [`PyErr_SetString`](https://github.com/python/cpython/blob/cb8a72b301f47e76d93a7fe5b259e9a5758792e1/Python/errors.c#L282), namely
- Convert cstr into Python string with `PyUnicode_FromString`
- Create new exception object using `PyObject_CallOneArg` just like it's done in [`_PyErr_CreateException`](https://github.com/python/cpython/blob/cb8a72b301f47e76d93a7fe5b259e9a5758792e1/Python/errors.c#L32)
- Set `error_code` property using `PyObject_SetAttrString`
- decref all temporary references

Test that it works and captures CPP backtrace (in addition to CI) by running
```python
import os
os.environ['TORCH_SHOW_CPP_STACKTRACES'] = '1'

import torch

x = torch.rand(10, device="cuda")
y = torch.arange(20, device="cuda")
try:
    x[y] = 2
    print(x)
except torch.AcceleratorError as e:
    print("Exception was raised", e.args[0])
    print("Captured error code is ", e.error_code)
```

which produces following output
```
Exception was raised CUDA error: device-side assert triggered
CUDA kernel errors might be asynchronously reported at some other API call, so the stacktrace below might be incorrect.
For debugging consider passing CUDA_LAUNCH_BLOCKING=1
Compile with `TORCH_USE_CUDA_DSA` to enable device-side assertions.

Exception raised from c10_cuda_check_implementation at /home/ubuntu/pytorch/c10/cuda/CUDAException.cpp:41 (most recent call first):
C++ CapturedTraceback:
pytorch#4 std::_Function_handler<std::shared_ptr<c10::LazyValue<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > > const> (), c10::SetStackTraceFetcher(std::function<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > ()>)::{lambda()pytorch#1}>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) from Logging.cpp:0
pytorch#5 c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) from ??:0
pytorch#6 c10::cuda::c10_cuda_check_implementation(int, char const*, char const*, int, bool) [clone .cold] from CUDAException.cpp:0
pytorch#7 void at::native::gpu_kernel_impl<at::native::AbsFunctor<float> >(at::TensorIteratorBase&, at::native::AbsFunctor<float> const&) [clone .isra.0] from tmpxft_000191fc_00000000-6_AbsKernel.cudafe1.cpp:0
pytorch#8 at::native::abs_kernel_cuda(at::TensorIteratorBase&) from ??:0
pytorch#9 at::Tensor& at::native::unary_op_impl_with_complex_to_float_out<at::native::abs_stub_DECLARE_DISPATCH_type>(at::Tensor&, at::Tensor const&, at::native::abs_stub_DECLARE_DISPATCH_type&, bool) [clone .constprop.0] from UnaryOps.cpp:0
pytorch#10 at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CUDA_out_abs_out(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor&) from RegisterCUDA_0.cpp:0
pytorch#11 at::_ops::abs_out::call(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor&) from ??:0
pytorch#12 at::native::abs(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
pytorch#13 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&), &at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CompositeExplicitAutograd__abs>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<at::Tensor const&> >, at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from RegisterCompositeExplicitAutograd_0.cpp:0
pytorch#14 at::_ops::abs::redispatch(c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
pytorch#15 torch::autograd::VariableType::(anonymous namespace)::abs(c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from VariableType_1.cpp:0
pytorch#16 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&), &torch::autograd::VariableType::(anonymous namespace)::abs>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&> >, at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from VariableType_1.cpp:0
pytorch#17 at::_ops::abs::call(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
pytorch#18 at::native::isfinite(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
pytorch#19 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&), &at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CompositeImplicitAutograd__isfinite>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<at::Tensor const&> >, at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&) from RegisterCompositeImplicitAutograd_0.cpp:0
pytorch#20 at::_ops::isfinite::call(at::Tensor const&) from ??:0
pytorch#21 torch::autograd::THPVariable_isfinite(_object*, _object*, _object*) from python_torch_functions_2.cpp:0
pytorch#22 PyObject_CallFunctionObjArgs from ??:0
pytorch#23 _PyObject_MakeTpCall from ??:0
pytorch#24 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
pytorch#25 _PyObject_FastCallDictTstate from ??:0
pytorch#26 _PyStack_AsDict from ??:0
pytorch#27 _PyObject_MakeTpCall from ??:0
pytorch#28 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
pytorch#29 _PyFunction_Vectorcall from ??:0
pytorch#30 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
pytorch#31 _PyFunction_Vectorcall from ??:0
pytorch#32 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
pytorch#33 _PyFunction_Vectorcall from ??:0
pytorch#34 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
pytorch#35 PyFrame_GetCode from ??:0
pytorch#36 PyNumber_Xor from ??:0
pytorch#37 PyObject_Str from ??:0
pytorch#38 PyFile_WriteObject from ??:0
pytorch#39 _PyWideStringList_AsList from ??:0
pytorch#40 _PyDict_NewPresized from ??:0
pytorch#41 _PyEval_EvalFrameDefault from ??:0
pytorch#42 PyEval_EvalCode from ??:0
pytorch#43 PyEval_EvalCode from ??:0
pytorch#44 PyUnicode_Tailmatch from ??:0
pytorch#45 PyInit__collections from ??:0
pytorch#46 PyUnicode_Tailmatch from ??:0
pytorch#47 _PyRun_SimpleFileObject from ??:0
pytorch#48 _PyRun_AnyFileObject from ??:0
pytorch#49 Py_RunMain from ??:0
pytorch#50 Py_BytesMain from ??:0
pytorch#51 __libc_init_first from ??:0
pytorch#52 __libc_start_main from ??:0
pytorch#53 _start from ??:0

Captured error code is  710
```
Pull Request resolved: pytorch#152023
Approved by: https://github.com/eqy, https://github.com/mradmila, https://github.com/ngimel
ghstack dependencies: pytorch#154436

…56600)

Don't call `sum()` on a tensor that is default constructed.

Previously we could call `sum()` on a tensor that was default-contructed. That would lead to an error like this:

```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/ahmads/.conda/envs/pt3/lib/python3.12/unittest/case.py", line 58, in testPartExecutor
    yield
  File "/home/ahmads/.conda/envs/pt3/lib/python3.12/unittest/case.py", line 634, in run
    self._callTestMethod(testMethod)
  File "/home/ahmads/.conda/envs/pt3/lib/python3.12/unittest/case.py", line 589, in _callTestMethod
    if method() is not None:
       ^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/ahmads/personal/pytorch/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 3191, in wrapper
    method(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/home/ahmads/personal/pytorch/test/test_nn.py", line 7235, in test_layer_norm_backwards_eps
    ln_out_cuda.backward(grad_output_cuda)
  File "/home/ahmads/personal/pytorch/torch/_tensor.py", line 647, in backward
    torch.autograd.backward(
  File "/home/ahmads/personal/pytorch/torch/autograd/__init__.py", line 354, in backward
    _engine_run_backward(
  File "/home/ahmads/personal/pytorch/torch/autograd/graph.py", line 829, in _engine_run_backward
    return Variable._execution_engine.run_backward(  # Calls into the C++ engine to run the backward pass
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
RuntimeError: tensor does not have a device
Exception raised from device_default at /home/ahmads/personal/pytorch/c10/core/TensorImpl.h:1265 (most recent call first):
C++ CapturedTraceback:
#4 std::_Function_handler<std::shared_ptr<c10::LazyValue<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > > const> (), c10::SetStackTraceFetcher(std::function<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > ()>)::{lambda()#1}>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) from Logging.cpp:0
#5 c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) from ??:0
#6 c10::detail::torchCheckFail(char const*, char const*, unsigned int, char const*) from ??:0
#7 at::TensorBase::options() const from :0
#8 at::meta::resize_reduction(at::impl::MetaBase&, at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, c10::ScalarType, bool) from :0
#9 at::meta::structured_sum_dim_IntList::meta(at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType>) from ??:0
#10 at::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CompositeExplicitAutogradNonFunctional_sum_dim_IntList(at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType>) from RegisterCompositeExplicitAutogradNonFunctional_0.cpp:0
#11 c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType>), &at::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CompositeExplicitAutogradNonFunctional_sum_dim_IntList>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType> > >, at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType>)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType>) from RegisterCompositeExplicitAutogradNonFunctional_0.cpp:0
#12 at::_ops::sum_dim_IntList::call(at::Tensor const&, c10::OptionalArrayRef<long>, bool, std::optional<c10::ScalarType>) from ??:0
#13 void at::native::(anonymous namespace)::LaunchGammaBetaBackwardCUDAKernel<float, float>(float const*, float const*, float const*, float const*, long, long, at::Tensor*, at::Tensor*, CUstream_st*) from ??:0
#14 void at::native::(anonymous namespace)::LayerNormBackwardKernelImplInternal<float>(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, long, long, at::Tensor*, at::Tensor*, at::Tensor*) from ??:0
#15 at::native::(anonymous namespace)::LayerNormBackwardKernelImpl(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, long, long, at::Tensor*, at::Tensor*, at::Tensor*) from ??:0
#16 at::native::layer_norm_backward_cuda(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<long>, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, std::optional<at::Tensor> const&, std::optional<at::Tensor> const&, std::array<bool, 3ul>) from ??:0
#17 at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CUDA__native_layer_norm_backward(at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, at::Tensor const&, at::Tensor const&, std::optional<at::Tensor> const&, std::optional<at::Tensor> const&, std::array<bool, 3ul>) from RegisterCUDA_0.cpp:0

```

Now we only call `sum(0)` on tensors that are defined and properly guard the `sum(0)` and assignment.
Pull Request resolved: #156600
Approved by: https://github.com/eqy, https://github.com/ngimel

For tensor with non-zero offset, it must be multiplied by element size

Add regression test by creating Tensor in array of 6 elements with offset 3, which before the fix crashed with
```
C++ exception with description "setStorage: sizes [3, 3], strides [0, 1], storage offset 3, and itemsize 4 requiring a storage size of 24 are out of bounds for storage of size 15
Exception raised from checkInBoundsForStorage at /Users/nshulga/git/pytorch/pytorch/aten/src/ATen/native/Resize.h:123 (most recent call first):
frame #0: c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__1::basic_string<char, std::__1::char_traits<char>, std::__1::allocator<char>>) + 56 (0x104a9cd44 in libc10.dylib)
frame #1: c10::detail::torchCheckFail(char const*, char const*, unsigned int, std::__1::basic_string<char, std::__1::char_traits<char>, std::__1::allocator<char>> const&) + 120 (0x104a9a05c in libc10.dylib)
frame #2: void at::native::checkInBoundsForStorage<long long>(c10::ArrayRef<long long>, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, long long, caffe2::TypeMeta const&, c10::Storage const&) + 656 (0x111dbd314 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #3: void at::native::setStrided<long long>(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, long long) + 152 (0x111dcd22c in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #4: at::native::as_strided_tensorimpl(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, std::__1::optional<long long>) + 312 (0x111dccf98 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #5: c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, std::__1::optional<c10::SymInt>), &at::(anonymous namespace)::(anonymous namespace)::wrapper_CPU__as_strided(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, std::__1::optional<c10::SymInt>)>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, std::__1::optional<c10::SymInt>>>, at::Tensor (at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, std::__1::optional<c10::SymInt>)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, std::__1::optional<c10::SymInt>) + 104 (0x1129a1e94 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #6: at::_ops::as_strided::call(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, std::__1::optional<c10::SymInt>) + 476 (0x112200ad0 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #7: at::Tensor::as_strided(c10::ArrayRef<long long>, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, std::__1::optional<long long>) const + 236 (0x1115db098 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #8: at::native::expand(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<long long>, bool) + 348 (0x111dcc0d4 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #9: c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool), &torch::ADInplaceOrView::(anonymous namespace)::expand(c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool)>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool>>, at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool) + 116 (0x1157ac410 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #10: c10::impl::wrap_kernel_functor_unboxed_<c10::impl::detail::WrapFunctionIntoFunctor_<c10::CompileTimeFunctionPointer<at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool), &torch::autograd::VariableType::(anonymous namespace)::expand(c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool)>, at::Tensor, c10::guts::typelist::typelist<c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool>>, at::Tensor (c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool)>::call(c10::OperatorKernel*, c10::DispatchKeySet, at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool) + 992 (0x114e8b010 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #11: at::_ops::expand::call(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<c10::SymInt>, bool) + 316 (0x112743c90 in libtorch_cpu.dylib)
frame #12: at::expand_size(at::Tensor const&, c10::ArrayRef<long long>) + 164 (0x1047d82b4 in basic)
frame #13: BasicTest_TestForBlobResizeCPU_Test::TestBody() + 284 (0x1047d8048 in basic)
```
Pull Request resolved: #158690
Approved by: https://github.com/angelayi

)

These happen when building with CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=RelWithAssert

This should fix two types of failures that started with #163665

Disclaimer that I used a lot of AI since I don't how pybind works or what refcounts and pointers are, so idk if this is a good solution, or even a solution at all (fwiw the tests pass now)

The first one type is

Truncated:
```
    default_pg, _ = _new_process_group_helper(
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/distributed/distributed_c10d.py", line 2096, in _new_process_group_helper
    backend_class = creator_fn(dist_backend_opts, backend_options)
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/distributed/fake_pg.py", line 25, in _create_fake_pg
    return FakeProcessGroup._create_internal(
RuntimeError: new_refcount != 1 INTERNAL ASSERT FAILED at "/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/c10/util/intrusive_ptr.h":319, please report a bug to PyTorch. intrusive_ptr: Cannot increase refcount after it reached zero.
Exception raised from retain_ at /var/lib/jenkins/workspace/c10/util/intrusive_ptr.h:319 (most recent call first):
C++ CapturedTraceback:
#4 std::_Function_handler<std::shared_ptr<c10::LazyValue<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > > const> (), c10::SetStackTraceFetcher(std::function<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > ()>)::{lambda()#1}>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) from Logging.cpp:0
#5 c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) from ??:0
#6 c10::detail::torchCheckFail(char const*, char const*, unsigned int, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > const&) from ??:0
#7 c10::detail::torchInternalAssertFail(char const*, char const*, unsigned int, char const*, char const*) from ??:0
#8 void pybind11::class_<c10d::FakeProcessGroup, (anonymous namespace)::IntrusivePtrNoGilDestructor<c10d::FakeProcessGroup> >::init_instance<(anonymous namespace)::IntrusivePtrNoGilDestructor<c10d::FakeProcessGroup>, 0>(pybind11::detail::instance*, void const*) from init.cpp:0
#9 pybind11::detail::type_caster_generic::cast(void const*, pybind11::return_value_policy, pybind11::handle, pybind11::detail::type_info const*, void* (*)(void const*), void* (*)(void const*), void const*) from :0
#10 pybind11::cpp_function::initialize<torch::distributed::c10d::(anonymous namespace)::c10d_init(_object*, _object*)::{lambda(int, int, c10::intrusive_ptr<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options, c10::detail::intrusive_target_default_null_type<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options> >)#127}, c10::intrusive_ptr<c10d::FakeProcessGroup, c10::detail::intrusive_target_default_null_type<c10d::FakeProcessGroup> >, int, int, c10::intrusive_ptr<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options, c10::detail::intrusive_target_default_null_type<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options> >, pybind11::name, pybind11::scope, pybind11::sibling, pybind11::arg, pybind11::arg, pybind11::arg_v>(torch::distributed::c10d::(anonymous namespace)::c10d_init(_object*, _object*)::{lambda(int, int, c10::intrusive_ptr<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options, c10::detail::intrusive_target_default_null_type<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options> >)#127}&&, c10::intrusive_ptr<c10d::FakeProcessGroup, c10::detail::intrusive_target_default_null_type<c10d::FakeProcessGroup> > (*)(int, int, c10::intrusive_ptr<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options, c10::detail::intrusive_target_default_null_type<c10d::FakeProcessGroup::Options> >), pybind11::name const&, pybind11::scope const&, pybind11::sibling const&, pybind11::arg const&, pybind11::arg const&, pybind11::arg_v const&)::{lambda(pybind11::detail::function_call&)#3}::_FUN(pybind11::detail::function_call&) from init.cpp:0
```
and I fix it here by getting rid of `DontIncreaseRefcount` and using make_intrusive to do the ref count handling instead.  However, I also had to move the constructor to be public, which I think is not good, based on the reasoning of the original PR

The other one type is
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/test/test_testing.py", line 2415, in test_no_warning_on_import
    self.assertEqual(out, "")
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 4233, in assertEqual
    raise error_metas.pop()[0].to_error(  # type: ignore[index]
AssertionError: String comparison failed: "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/s[352 chars]):\n" != ''
- /opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/distributed/__init__.py:29: FutureWarning: pybind11-bound class 'torch._C._distributed_c10d.FakeProcessGroup' is using an old-style placement-new '__init__' which has been deprecated. See the upgrade guide in pybind11's docs. This message is only visible when compiled in debug mode.
-   if is_available() and not torch._C._c10d_init():

To execute this test, run the following from the base repo dir:
    python test/test_testing.py TestImports.test_no_warning_on_import
```
which I fix by getting rid of the `__init__` which I think is ok since it'll just error if you try to make one?

Pull Request resolved: #165479
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang

Previously g3 = NVIDIA Tesla M60
Now g6 = NVIDIA L4
Also change cuda arch list accordingly

Pros:
More memory, newer GPU

Cons:
That was one of the few remaining tests on g3 runners, so we probably lost coverage?

We can probably run more tests in parallel now but I'm not going to do that here

Disabled a bunch of sparse tests and nestedtensor tests that were previously skipped due to not having sufficient hardware?  They are now failing with
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 3293, in wrapper
    method(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 3292, in wrapper
    with policy():
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 2532, in __enter__
    self.beforeStreams[-1].synchronize()
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/cuda/streams.py", line 105, in synchronize
    super().synchronize()
torch.AcceleratorError: CUDA error: device-side assert triggered
Search for `cudaErrorAssert' in https://docs.nvidia.com/cuda/cuda-runtime-api/group__CUDART__TYPES.html for more information.
CUDA kernel errors might be asynchronously reported at some other API call, so the stacktrace below might be incorrect.
For debugging consider passing CUDA_LAUNCH_BLOCKING=1
Compile with `TORCH_USE_CUDA_DSA` to enable device-side assertions.

Exception raised from stream_synchronize at /var/lib/jenkins/workspace/c10/cuda/CUDAFunctions.h:120 (most recent call first):
C++ CapturedTraceback:
#4 std::_Function_handler<std::shared_ptr<c10::LazyValue<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > > const> (), c10::SetStackTraceFetcher(std::function<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > ()>)::{lambda()#1}>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) from Logging.cpp:0
#5 c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) from ??:0
#6 c10::cuda::c10_cuda_check_implementation(int, char const*, char const*, unsigned int, bool) [clone .cold] from CUDAException.cpp:0
#7 THCPStream_synchronize(_object*, _object*) from Stream.cpp:0
#8 cfunction_vectorcall_NOARGS from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Objects/methodobject.c:489
#9 _PyObject_VectorcallTstate from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/cpython/abstract.h:114
#10 _PyEval_EvalFrame from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/internal/pycore_ceval.h:46
#11 _PyObject_VectorcallTstate from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/cpython/abstract.h:114
#12 _PyEval_EvalFrame from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/internal/pycore_ceval.h:46
```
when run with cuda launch blocking I got a ton of stuff like
```

/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [5,3,0], thread: [2,7,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [5,3,0], thread: [3,7,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [2,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,1,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,1,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,1,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,2,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [2,2,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,2,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,3,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,3,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,4,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,4,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
```

Pull Request resolved: #165158
Approved by: https://github.com/seemethere

Previously g3 = NVIDIA Tesla M60
Now g6 = NVIDIA L4
Also change cuda arch list accordingly

Pros:
More memory, newer GPU

Cons:
That was one of the few remaining tests on g3 runners, so we probably lost coverage?

We can probably run more tests in parallel now but I'm not going to do that here

Disabled a bunch of sparse tests and nestedtensor tests that were previously skipped due to not having sufficient hardware?  They are now failing with
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 3293, in wrapper
    method(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 3292, in wrapper
    with policy():
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/testing/_internal/common_utils.py", line 2532, in __enter__
    self.beforeStreams[-1].synchronize()
  File "/opt/conda/envs/py_3.10/lib/python3.10/site-packages/torch/cuda/streams.py", line 105, in synchronize
    super().synchronize()
torch.AcceleratorError: CUDA error: device-side assert triggered
Search for `cudaErrorAssert' in https://docs.nvidia.com/cuda/cuda-runtime-api/group__CUDART__TYPES.html for more information.
CUDA kernel errors might be asynchronously reported at some other API call, so the stacktrace below might be incorrect.
For debugging consider passing CUDA_LAUNCH_BLOCKING=1
Compile with `TORCH_USE_CUDA_DSA` to enable device-side assertions.

Exception raised from stream_synchronize at /var/lib/jenkins/workspace/c10/cuda/CUDAFunctions.h:120 (most recent call first):
C++ CapturedTraceback:
pytorch#4 std::_Function_handler<std::shared_ptr<c10::LazyValue<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > > const> (), c10::SetStackTraceFetcher(std::function<std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> > ()>)::{lambda()pytorch#1}>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) from Logging.cpp:0
pytorch#5 c10::Error::Error(c10::SourceLocation, std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >) from ??:0
pytorch#6 c10::cuda::c10_cuda_check_implementation(int, char const*, char const*, unsigned int, bool) [clone .cold] from CUDAException.cpp:0
pytorch#7 THCPStream_synchronize(_object*, _object*) from Stream.cpp:0
pytorch#8 cfunction_vectorcall_NOARGS from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Objects/methodobject.c:489
pytorch#9 _PyObject_VectorcallTstate from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/cpython/abstract.h:114
pytorch#10 _PyEval_EvalFrame from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/internal/pycore_ceval.h:46
pytorch#11 _PyObject_VectorcallTstate from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/cpython/abstract.h:114
pytorch#12 _PyEval_EvalFrame from /usr/local/src/conda/python-3.10.14/Include/internal/pycore_ceval.h:46
```
when run with cuda launch blocking I got a ton of stuff like
```

/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [5,3,0], thread: [2,7,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [5,3,0], thread: [3,7,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [2,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,0,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,1,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,1,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,1,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,2,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [2,2,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,2,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [0,3,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,3,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [1,4,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
/var/lib/jenkins/workspace/third_party/cutlass/include/cutlass/integer_subbyte.h:124: cutlass::integer_subbyte<Bits, Signed>::integer_subbyte(unsigned int) [with int Bits = 2; __nv_bool Signed = false]: block: [3,8,0], thread: [3,4,0] Assertion `value < upper_bound` failed.
```

Pull Request resolved: pytorch#165158
Approved by: https://github.com/seemethere