why?

My wish is for God to grant me a loving, caring and understanding woman that
willlove me and my Daughter, Because
that will make me happy for the rest of my life.What do you want your new partner?I
want my partner, to be caring,
understanding, God fearing, with good sense ofhumor, who is loyal, honest and
truthful to the call that will give me all her
loveas I will love her with all my heart and soul. I hope this doesn't sound lame
buthere it goes. I am currently looking to have
a long term relationship with one ladyand I want my partner to be respectful. If
you come home after having a bad day
youwont even have to ask for a back rub. I will give you one because I care about �
you. I want that to be a two way street. A
lady who would love to go out and havefun. Maybe a country drives, or to the beach,
a nice dinner at a Qualityrestaurant, a
lady who loves children because I love children. If you have childrenthen you
should actually enjoy being around them. I want
a lady who is NICE I wouldlike to meet someone who has a good relationship with her
parents and siblings,please if you are
that type of person I am in search of dont hesitate to tell me � my dear, because I
do promise I will not let you down, I
promise to love and carefor you with all my life.4) How do you feel sometimes when
you are lonely? ADDownload to read ad-
free. Makes me remember about my past, the loss of my late wife, I dont just like
it � been lonely.So tell me in whom did
you find your first love and where, and what happened tothat relationship?I founded
my first love while I was still a teenager
with a girl named Amber, wewere both attending the same school she was from Chicago
united states, then weused to see
each other everyday helping each other with our assignment,unfortunately our final
exam at high school, she told me that her
parents will beliving the country for Canada and she was going with them also, I
felt likewooh!!!, that means that you are going
to live me, she said she does not know whatto do, so they left I was really unhappy
during that period, years past on when
Ihave already married I and my late wife was on a summer trip to the Canada, so
wewent on shopping at Shoprite we saw a
kid who was just wondering around inside thesupermarket I walked unto the kid and
ask him where are your parents as I
wastalking to the kid immediately a lady walked unto looking at the face of the
femalewas my first love Amber I was very
happy to see her and she also, I introduced mylate wife to her, she also introduced
her husband and her children to me, she
isnow happily married with 2 kids a boy and a girl, so we all went out for a
nicedinner, I got to know were they were living.So
tell me my dear what are the languages do you speak?I speak English fluently and
understand little Spanish and German,
hoping to learnmore if I do have the chance to.Who is your mentor?My mentor is my
late dad, he was a nice, caring and
understanding dad, who lovesand take good care of his family, he always speaks the
truth and he is a selfdiscipline man, my
dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but Ido feel the pain
because he never lived to enjoy me, he was
really the best dad inthe world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that
wears the crown, sofor you to be successful
in life you have to face some challengesWhat is your biggest fear?To loose the one
I love and I dont want to loose anyone
close to me again. � I enjoy life in a quiet, peaceful and loving manner; I avoid
conflicting situationsthat may interrupt my
inner peace. I enjoy the company of family, friends and mycompanion when I find
one. Am searching for someone with similar
traits, who willenjoy at least some of the things I like, someone who will
appreciate me for who Iam and will support me in all
my endeavors to excel in life, who will be mycomforter and share most things with
me good or bad, someone I can share
myradiance and sunny disposition with, if you feel you are that person dont
hesitate � go with your mind I can be all you want
and more.What would be the perfect setting for a first meeting with a new date?As
for me I will take her first to a nice fast
food, share some ice creamtogether, then drive around the town together, while in
the evening, we both goout to the best
restaurant to have dinner, candle lights on the table, a niceloving blues music
will be playing, pop some champagne together,
look into her eyesand tell her how much you love her and tell her she means the
whole world, and thatshe is the air that you
breathing, and that you will love and cherish her till youdie, tell her how lovely
are lips her, then give her a lovely kiss, after that
weboth go out counting stars together, that I think will make my first date
verylovely and romantic.2) If you are found guilty of
a crime, would you admit yourself and accept yourmistakes?I will admit my self,
accept my mistakes, and face the
consequences, because I am aGod fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.
ADDownload to read ad-free. If you see
somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?Yes I would
help in anyway, because God in heaven
says it is good to help thosethat are in need, and he loves a cheerful giver.In a
relationship how do you see a situation
whereby the woman earns more moneythan the man?A good relationship where two lovers
understand each other, they're
concerned foreach other and they respect one another, I dont think that there will
be problem � about that, to me is no
problem as far as they both love their selves.What gives you inspiration in life?
When everyone around me is happy, I feel very
lively to do things that are whatinspires me in life.From your own point of view
how do you feel someone can be romantic?I
feel the best way for a person to be romantic is by being your own self; dont � let
others tell you what to do. Pay carefully
attention to what your mate tellsyou. It's a very easy thing to do, but it is often
overshadowed by personalthoughts or wants
Tell them that they are the best, Kiss often and comfort eachother by holding each
other, you can come up with something no
one would expect.Like ask your spouse to make love under the kitchen table. Do
something creative.Show who you are, Tell
your spouse how you really feel about him/her, that you lovethem from the inside
not just the outside. Say sweet and loving
things like: 'Youreyes can make the sun rise, or words like 'Youre the reason my
heart beats,' or � 'You look so good, I wish I
could grow a whole field of you, Often the greatest wayto show your love is by
giving someone your trust. Open up and tell
your matesomething about you that no one else knows.Do you think you can be trusted
by your man?Yes I can be trusted,
because I am ready to lay down my life for the woman I love.What positive lessons
have you learned from your past
relationships that will helpyou succeed in future relationships?Love, Trust,
Understanding.5)Marriage they say "Is For Better,
For Worse" do you believe in this principle?Yes I do believe in that, because that
is where you have to show that you love
yourpartner very much.On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your
country,State,or city insearch of the man you
want to be with in the future?Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I
can find a woman from anothercountry I learn
from her culture and also she learns from my culture.Do you like holding hands and
exchanging casual kisses with your
partner?Yes I do I will hold her very close to my body; make her feel the warmth of
mybody.Have you talked about your
feelings with someone else?Yes and you are the only person whom I am sharing my
feelings
with. Hi I sincerely appreciate what you wrote about yourself and your family,that
shows ADDownload to read ad-free.
that you are really a nice person to be with "in person".It's not easy goingthrough
those worst phrase of life. Mine was alittle
bit different from what yourexperience in life, I am so sorry for your lost of your
husband it is really sadwhen we lost someone
dear to us Thanks for taking the time to respond to my Email, although the little
we wroteabout myself doesn't encompass
our whole being but at least it gives us a glimpseof who we are.Thanks for giving a
try!! I do welcome your response and hope
that wewill get to know each other deeply. Is just a matter of time and
understanding, wecan make a difference in our
relationship if we keep steady communication with each other. You really sound
interesting to me after reading your email,
I think we havealot in common but I believe a meaningful relationship has to begin
with meaningfulsteps like been just
friends, in other for us to share deep truth about ourselvesand to see if it will
work out between us, despite the distance.. what
do youthink?You wrote alot about yourself but I still want to ask you some few
questionsbefore I write more about my job and
so on. how has life been treating you sinceyou have been alone? Have you tried any
relationship since what is your plan for
anew relationship? How many dating site did you registered with? tell me about
yourideal man? what are the qualities you are
looking for in man before you called hima friend ? This are short phrase question
from my heart, I dont think i know theright
questions to ask you about your life that will make me trust you within asecond but
I want us to be honest with each other
because to make the best out ofany form of relationship
sincere communication is the key. I feel so controlling asking you all this
question's but is not my nature, Ireally want to get to
know you because I see a lot of possibilities withI guess am writing too much
today, my intention is for you to be able to get
toknow me better, I want you to know that! since we are far from each other
rightnow. I hope all is well with you? as for me am
just doing fine and getting busywith my time all day at work. i know probably, you
would be reading my email beforemy
second mail would come in. it was really lengthy but i want you to enjoy
readingsomething new from me. i just wish you are
having a nice time over there . Im sure � you would find a better place in my heart
with your mail before we met.. My Job
experience started when i was in Italy, i always sail with my friendsfather to
different countries during my holidays back to
Italy. i develop interestin my friend's father job type, so i decided to study
PhysicalOceanography/Chemical engineering,I
graduated 1985 with an BSc in ChemicalEngineering from Imperial College,Rome and
then went on to complete an Msc
inMarine Geology and Geophysics at the University of Rome Oceanography Center.I
nowworks as a chemical engineer for
Shell and a sole contractor in the drilling sectorand also in the course of this
contract I do purchase and supply crude oil
toprospective buyers especially from China. I spent my first year offshore on
mobile 'jack-up' and 'semi-sub' drillingrigs. This
was a great period in which I developed an understanding in well HeadDrilling. I
assisted the wellsite leader (or 'company
man') by compiling casingtallies, calculating cement job volumes, and reporting
progress to the onshoreplanning team. By
working with some very experienced wellsite leaders I gained an