QUATIONS TO ASK IN LOVE ... DURING WHEN A NEW CLINT COME ...

How many Girlfriends you had before?

. Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship(s)?
. Do you know what you want in a new partner?
.Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?
.How many brothers and sisters etc. you have?( How big is your family?)
. What's the year you were born and how old you are?
. What types of music or movies or TV Shows you like?
. What is your goals or dreams in life?
. What do you dream about at night?
.. What's your favorite foods & drinks?
. Can you drive a vehicle?
. What's your religion?
. What languages you speak?
. Are You left or right handed?
.Are you financially stable?
. Are you intelligent and smart and educated with common sense?
What's your turn on's and turn off's?
. Do have any sexual transmiitted diseases?
. Do you any tattoos and body piercings?
. What is your favorite Positiong in Sex?
21. What's your interest and dislikes?
22. Have you learned something about yourself from every past relationship?
23.Have you narrowed down your specific desires as to what type of person you want to meet?
24.Have you talked about your feelings with someone else?
25.What did you do this weekend (week)?
26.What sports do you play or like?
27.Where did you go to school/college?
28.Do you like (an interest of yours)?
29.What's Your Favorite Sexual Fantasy?
30.What's Your Favorite Way To Be Touched?
What are your religious views?
Do you believe in a God?
What are your views about an afterlife?
How should we agree to handle arguments?
If you're mad about something how will you let me know?
If you're having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside?
Do you like sharing your feelings?
What are your views about same sex friends?
How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends?
How important is a girl's or guy's night out?
Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage?
Should a wife stay home with kids?
What are your views about stay-at-home dads?
How would you feel about women who make more money than men?
What are your views towards handling money?
Do you feel you should save everything?
Do you feel you should splurge a little?
How would you rate your ability to handle money?
How would you handle a debt problem?
What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?

ABOUT MY BODY ....

I am vulnerable about my exterior appearance, about my body. I do not like when you compliment me
about my aspect with jokes. I like and sometimes even prefer a stranger's compliment when it is said
appropriately. I like when you surprise me with your compliments. Being surprised is like feeling there is
something new, novel. I appreciate constructive suggestions, for example about the way I dress, but I do
not like when you joke about it. If there is something you do not like, for example my new lipstick, tell it
with courtesy, and buy me another one without letting me know.

THINGS I LIKE .
I want to laugh, laugh, laugh with you. I want to dance with you, listen to music with you, and laugh with
you. Let's laugh, let's free up, laughing together!
I like biking, I like going to the ocean and walking on the beach. You know it and I love when you propose
doing something that maybe you do not specifically like doing, but you do because you know I like it.
I love surprise gifts — a haircut, or a day at a spa, or an hour of massage. It is a real gift when I come
back home and find tasks I was supposed to do during that time already taken care of!
A dinner invitation is nice too, but it has to be a surprise. I love when you anticipate my desires; it means
you know me very well, all the little things I care about, and my habits

LOVE...
To love me is to accept me as I am. I do not want to be judged for the things I do. I want you to trust me
and let me do what I feel is right. We women are always "right" — it is a matter of love. When I feel alone,
empty, a stranger, I want your eyes to tell me I am the person you love and you want me for what I am.
Do not do or say things because you think you are "honest", do them because of your love for me, and
trust me even though you think I am wrong.. Just as we do not judge our children because they are our
children and we love them.

LITTLES THINGS I DO EVERY DAY ..

Be happy because I am happy. I like you when you say hi in the morning. I like when you call in the
evening and tell me where you are and when you'll be at home. I feel nervous if I do not know where you
are and I am here waiting for you. I like when there is complicity between us. I do not necessarily like
when you do things I am jealous about, such as preparing the table or cooking dinner. But if you do it,
take care of everything, to make me feel completely relaxed about it.

WHAT I FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A MAN...

I like men's faces, their butts, the way they walk. A calm, warm, masculine voice can be very intriguing. I
like when you talk to me with a calm tone of voice. I care for your compliments and your caresses. I like
you when you are romantic, when you dream with me, when you are close to me while I fantasize. Even a
stranger I meet on the bus can make me feel like a woman if he knows how to listen to me.

TRUST ....
You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each
other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let
each other go if you can't do this........Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It
should be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best proof of love is trust.True
love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it can weather any storm. Loving, trusting and
respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and happiness..It's hard to love and hard to trust;
but finding love and finding trust was a gift from you to me.Relationships should never be taken for
granted.. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must
for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don’t have these ingredients you will
never succeed.To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can
never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die,
your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your
heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes
everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are
always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone, but the only one in
your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her
dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her.Distance
doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that
relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring,
love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a
wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can
get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies -
trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart;
choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without
trust you have nothing........The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your
heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust,
commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause
love has just one important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything. It
means trusting and being honest with each otherSomeone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are
on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is
patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the
truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams,
and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and
shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people..........
Well Dear this is how i want to explain things to you so that you can understand me well.I had a man
named Ken,I met him through the internet dating site..He then proposed to me that he is very interested in
me and want to be with me, I did agreed with his proposal and we tried to get to know each other more for
awhile. we then also heard each other's real voice on the phone to trust and believe each other more.

Within some weeks later ,ken told me that he would like me to come to the state and be with him and if
possible we can get married.ken told me that he was single and looking for Love without no kids, I did
informed my grandpa about what ken said,My grandpa, only adviced me to take very good care of myself
and now adays men cannot be trusted and maybe he is up to something.A week later,We started working
on my documents to go to the states and be with ken.
I then depart from Ghana and then met ken at the airport,He then took me to a restuarant nearer to the
airport to have some soft drinks and have fun.Which after we moved from the restuarant ,we then went to
a house where ken told me that it was his apartment, I did saw a lady with kids ,ken told me, that was his
sister so i did"nt bother to ask him so much questions.I was in kne's apartment for a week,ken served me
good,but it got to a time ken came to make some discussions with me.

ken told me that ,He would like me to join a prostitution team so that we can earn much money.And that is
the kind of job that he has running over there to earn much money. SoI didnt agreed with ken at all , I am
a very good christian woman and a good christian woman shouldnt have to do such thing and even the
almighty God is going to judge you someday. i felt so worried and sad ever since ken did came to tell me
about that issue.One day,a lady called me and warned me to stay away from ken.Not knowing the lady
that i did saw with kids was ken's wife and he lied to me that it was his sister,that also made me confused
and thinking always.

So i tried to inform ken about it,He was not willing to tell me the truth about what was going on.So the lady
kept on giving me warning to stay away from ken and if not she is going to hurt me ,so i did plead with her
to tell me much about what she is saying,so we did sat down and she told me that ,she is already married
with ken with 4 wonderful children.And she even showed me their engagement ring's ,she also showed
me some pictures of thier wedding day,she even adviced me that ,she is a woman and it will pain her so
much if i do get cheated and hurt by ken.

So i should try my best to find another man to be with because ken is just going to use me and dump me
somewhere else. So i did went to my room cried so hardly,I prayed to the almighty God for guiding and
protecting me from getting hurt.
So when ken arrived,I tried to ask him to tell me the truth about what was going on the house,But it seems
like he is not willing to tell me the truth.So even the woman help me with some amount of money to get
my trip back to Ghana,I did thank her soo much for telling me the truth.

So when i arrived here in Ghana,I did told a friend of mine about how i got hurt by ken,she even told me
that now a days men cannot be trust with our heart.

They normally just use us and dump us after they do get whatever they want from the woman.so she
even did advice me to take another chance to see whether i could find a right good man to be with me.So
when i registered the singlesnet dating site,I just dont know much about it and you are the first person i
was able to talk to.And i know that the almighty God has answered to my prayers .

So since then i am very carefully on here.But i know not men are all like that.Thats the end of my story
with Ken.Hope that you will understand me and know why i left the state....Tell me Hoow you were hurt
and also like you to drop your membership at Americansingles if only you really want to start afresh with
me...